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Mr b im an emotional mess. You're correct . Sitting in a tiny apartment is wearing me thin. I am showing bi polar behavior. Everytime inthink I'm better I am not

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I think me and my wife both have issues and we feed off each other

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Mr B I am getting help. I don't know why 1 day I'm ok a week later I'm
Angry again.

It's alot man! Watching your whole f#%^king life crumble in front of you

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So get out and do something to get your mind off of it. Sounds simple, but you gotta start somewhere and keep those actions consistent.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Originally Posted By: netmaster
I think me and my wife both have issues and we feed off each other


Yep....

BUT...

You are the one here

You are the one that has no excuses down the road

Stop feeding her

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Mr B I am getting help. I don't know why 1 day I'm ok a week later I'm Angry again.

It's alot man! Watching your whole f#%^king life crumble in front of you


Yes it is Hamster! Yes it is!

So why stand around and watch it crumble? Start picking up the pieces by continuing the important work on yourself and your issues.

Stop obsessing on your sitch. Get your focus on something other than the sitch. Get into a routine as it relates to your kids, your job, your GAL. Set some things on the calendar to give yourself something to look forward to.

If you can't do this then you will find yourself digging the hole deeper and deeper. Or in your case, you will never find the end to the habitrail.

You can do this!


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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
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Net, this board is about marital issues, it's not about medical or psychiatric issues. Yes, they sometimes come as a package but those things should be discussed with your health care professionals. Any advice you receive on this board about anything other than DB should be taken with a big grain of salt.

Everyone has "mood swings" and in and of themselves are not indicative of bipolar.

Take that with a grain of salt.


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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Well I am coaching my sons Tball. That is gratifying and will keep me busy.
Still counseling twice a week.
Reading a new book.
Friend coming down sat for golf this weekend.
Applied for part time job cuz I'm going nuts with all this time

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Its just during the day that my mind goes crazy. I had a great day yesterday. Gone all day. Drafted T Ball team. Played cards.

This morning I put son on bus and notice on the calendar she is meeting with L tomorrow at 3.

It spun the hamster wheel

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Can I be honest too. I feel like this forum gives me false hope. There has been so many times I've said F((ck it Im done with her. Lets get a mediator and move on. I can't handle your god damn mood swings. You blaming me for the complete failure of the M. Sitting in limbo. Being threatened with D once a month. Threats of dating and all the other venom that has spewed out of her mouth. Even my counselor is like dude you can't go back to that. She aint' working on herself or marriage so y would you go back. Many times I've woken up saying im fn done.

Then I come here and I just feel like everyone on here says it aint over tils its over.

I know DB is about taking care of myself and detaching. I remember early on i think M1 said Detaching is the hardest part but most important.

Anyways the hamster is rambling again

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