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What I will never understand is the choice. THis is the moment where any of our M's could leap into a greater level than ever before. Because it's broken it can be rebuilt, and if it hadn't been broken it could not have been rebuilt.
Well two things come to mind here. One from those people that have reconciled there marriages I understand that the NEW marriages are better than anything they ever imagined.
And number two is that during crisis, the one in crisis is the OPPOSITE of who they have been for their whole life. They must try every cheeseless tunnel and fail at each one until they arrive at what was right before them the entire time. OPPOSITE is a major theme of these crisises and their is science behind it. But it really does explain why things do not make sense. Because most of us are not used to living in an opposite world. If you have ever raised teenagers you can see what OPPOSITE looks like from their point of view. It does not make sense, eventually these teenagers become adults and it is amazing that they then think their parents now know everything. This process is not quick, and it takes a tremendous amount of patience.