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thanks! i assumed it was teacher in chinese but wasn't quite sure which character it was in reference too. obviously my kids aren't into kung fu panda. lol!


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Ding ding ding! Mr.Bond is the winner smile

Barely I was certain you knew who he was!


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T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
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Monkey, good link! Great perspective there. It's really amazing how timely some of the things on this site come up when I have a little trepidation about everything.

Mr. Bond, thanks for answering the question about shifu - it sounded so familiar, but I couldn't for the life of me figure out why!


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W: 28
M: almost 6
T: 10.5
S2
Bomb#1: 05/11
Bomb#2: 11/11
S'd: 11/28/11
Moved back in: 12/28/11
MC: 06/28/12

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"Wanna play a round of Quien es mas macho?"

I'm telling you La^^^you need to get that shotgun out of storage ASAP.lol


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Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden





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I wasn't suicidal but I was dying a slow and unhappy death. I was simply going through the motions of living life, too afraid of losing "control" to love, to have fun, to enjoy the beautiful things this life has to offer. - Bug


I can recall with tremendous frustration trying to convey this to my W. Despite my repeated attempts, I could not find the words and it just kept getting worse and it destroyed me. I was very close to the "end." I've seen so many parallels with the two of us Bug. I'm so happy you have recognized this behavior, because you have helped me in turn - thanks!

Brought this over from the Bug's thread. Important...


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Life goes on: 6/13


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Damn Monk, digging up posts from 2001, well done sir!!


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"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley
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"...that secret from which one never recovers, that even in the most perfect love, one person loves less profoundly than the other."

Thornton Wilder
The Bridge of San Luis Rey

Our choice is to understand this and to choose to be that person, in face of all odds, decide.

It is very empowering to do so...


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
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Nice one TG - thanks bud.


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So, in full-on D mode now. Lawyers are doing their little dance, etc..

Still very much want to R, but at the same time I feel anger creeping in.

Oh well, just wanted to vent a bit.


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Sorry Monk!!


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WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley
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