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Sad.


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Originally Posted By: kat727
Lesson learned to not snoop, it just brings up old wounds.

Nothing good can come of it. Nothing. We diminish ourselves when we do that. I've done it...and got the same results you did. Hurt.


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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
[quote=kat727]And fwiw, the ones who need to publicly talk it up are the ones who need to convince themselves.

I think there's some truth to that.


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Why can't posts be edited?
It'd be nice to be able to correct a mistake!
What's the rationale for taking away posters ability to edit?


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The mods believed that we are too immature to contact each other outside of this forum. So they took away the edit feature so no covert communications could be made.


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Gineen, it really gets me when he tries to write himself up to be something he isn't. I don't know if he will ever win S19 back. S16 is sort of the class clown so he just jokes a lot when he is around his dad but he doesn't feel much of a connection. The girls are in a half love/half hate relationship with him. It makes me sad for my kids but I know this is his situation to resolve.

I haven't had any contact since before the divorce with the OW. I don't see her or ex playing a big part in their lives once their mandatory visits are done at 18. Sad but true.

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Originally Posted By: kat727
It really gets me when he tries to write himself up to be something he isn't.

He's probably creating a monument to himself and OW on FakeBook.


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Back from the dentist...work to be done. It makes me mad at myself but at the same time I need to just deal with it. I am getting back on a regular schedule and take care of me.

All of this time I spent getting emotionally and spiritually in a better place, now I have to take care of the body. Losing weight, walking with D13 and taking care of my body as a whole, these things are my focus now.

My old interest, S, moved about an hour away now. He is just on the other side of Kansas City. Well he knows where I am but I also know his kids stayed in Pittsburg to finish up school. He isn't going to have a whole lot of free time. Not getting my hopes up.

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Blech! Dentist bite....or should be bitten...LOL. Glad you are handling it though.

Awww....the other side. frown Well, he knows where you are.

Keep up the walking!


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Definitely take care of you!

Hope the dental stuff is over soon!


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