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((((( ))))) the memories are hard. i think in time.. you're H will have to face the memories too. it's so easy at this time for them to put them on the back shelf. but they won't stay there forever.

take your time to ensure you take care of yourself! you have been very smart about everything from the beginning. i really admire your strength! amazing how much we find within ourselves during these trying times.

i'm off to work again tonight. the sunshine was nice but.. i was sleeping! lol. 2 more nights.. i can't remember if i answered your question about retrouvaille. it's the weekend of the 13th. nervous!


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Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
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I agree he will have to face memories. And also moving back into this house with it being empty. Trying to take care of myself, I have not been hungry since bomb. I've lost 20 pounds, which I needed and pretty much have to force myself to eat.

I don't know where this strength is coming from. I guess just taking it day by day.

I understand your nervousness. Prepare for it to be intense. That's what I'm trying to do right now with all the financial disagreeing. I just know it's going to come done to lawyers, maybe even court. I just have to try to be prepared!

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my daughter-in-law told me tonight she wanted to lose five pounds before a cruise we're going on. i told her, "file for divorce!" cry


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S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
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Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing

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I laughed out loud when I read that! I'm going to read your thread. My H. is 63. What happened to our golden years? Tarnished I guess. Thanks for the laugh.

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anytime! i'm sure we all can use the laughs! it makes for creases to slow down the tears!


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Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing

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Oooops! Got your ages mixed up. Just read your thread. I find it difficult on this board to respond here or over on yours. You have been thru a lot. My h. and I are both on 2nd m. we both have two kids, but it has never been a problem. They are all grown now. My. H. was a good stepdad for many years. Plus kids' dad was always in picture. Your h. seems to be all over the place. I'm too new at this to give advice, but their are great people here. Hang in!

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ahhh.. the LBS diet. a couple of months ago i was hanging out with a couple of gfs. one of them said she was envious of my weight loss. i said.. well.. all you need to do is have your H leave and your life fall apart and the pounds will really start coming off! my other gf said.. "i'd rather be fat". it was really funny!


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I just replied on your thread! I've seen many people here on the LBS diet. I just need to start exercising. The new place I'm moving to seems to be a good place to do walks.

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Well, hes's not agreeing to anything my cpa advised me was fair. So I guess it's onto the lawyers.

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better to let the lawyers speak for you know. i read on purg's thread today where it's better to let the WAS associate negative talks w/ the lawyer and associate positive interactions w/ you. when i read it.. i immediately thought of you. sunny now!


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Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
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