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#2225911 - 02/29/12 03:27 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: rickb89]
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Rick and Labug may have learning disabilities or ADHD? Dunno .


Tonight I am grateful that you guys can make me laugh! Out loud! Something I hadn't done a lot of in the last 11+ months.
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#2225912 - 02/29/12 03:29 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: labug]
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Originally Posted By: labug
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Rick and Labug may have learning disabilities or ADHD? Dunno .


Tonight I am grateful that you guys can make me laugh! Out loud! Something I hadn't done a lot of in the last 11+ months.


The house is very quiet at the moment and even I laughed out loud! I still have a smile on my face!
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#2225914 - 02/29/12 03:30 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: labug]
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U really wanna laugh hard read 2s above acouple of them above.
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#2225915 - 02/29/12 03:35 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: rickb89]
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Banana - you continue to provide me and everyone else with such sensible peaceful wisdom. I love way you look at things. Your kids are incredibly fortunate to have you.

When i am thinking outloud here on the boards, your insights have a way of calming me down and its just the right way of saying it so that it kind of locks in for me, so thanks!

Just got home from yoga so feeling pretty good. Hope you have a good night.

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#2225920 - 02/29/12 03:38 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: Rick1963]
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Gee thanks Rick1963!

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#2226080 - 02/29/12 06:15 PM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: ces67]
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Originally Posted By: ces67
Originally Posted By: rickb89
I just read for the first time, the six stages of a MLC. I do think she is in a MLC but add the childhood psyche issues into the mix and its a hornet's nest.


Hey Rick, just curious where you saw these 6 stages? Thanks.


CES - go to Purg's thread "If you like Pina Collatas" and follow the link in her thread. You'll see.

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#2226255 - 03/01/12 03:14 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: rickb89]
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For some reason W is on another downward swing and has been giving me the possessed glare for two days. Maybe I haven't sacrificed enough for her?

Anyone know a good excorcist?

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#2226256 - 03/01/12 03:22 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: rickb89]
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I don't know any exorcists but my D claims to be a witch.

I'm not sure what's worse.. The death glare or the I'm so sorry I hurt you look. Hmmmm..

Is she speaking in coherent sentences or just moaning and making zombieish noises? You know what you have to do if it's the latter.. Run like h#ll! A good reason to always keep a full gas tank.
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#2226259 - 03/01/12 03:27 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: barely floating]
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bf, you are cracking me up tonight!
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#2226265 - 03/01/12 03:41 AM Re: DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 5) [Re: labug]
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Banana....you never fail to cheer me up!

If your daughter is up to the task then yes if she could cast some love spells for me but make sure she gets it right. Say she is off by just a bit and W falls in love with the blender.

Speaking of zombies. My cat died last night. RIP Nate. Can he come back as a Zombie?

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