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#2231367 - 03/17/12 12:16 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8542
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Thanks, bf and Rick!
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Me 57/H 58
M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2231400 - 03/17/12 05:03 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
keep_going Offline
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Registered: 06/14/11
Posts: 834
Originally Posted By: labug
As I said to S22: "I have to believe he's happy with his choice and this is the life he wants to live."


Labug - A reality check for your H, indeed...

And what a contrast - His sitch sounds so sad to me, while I can hear the sense of peace and contentment in your words. So glad you have all your chicks home. :-)
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Me & H: 43
D6
D5
S2.5
Together: 21 years, M: 16 years
EA: 11/13/10
ILYBNILWY & Separation - 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12




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#2231406 - 03/17/12 08:25 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: keep_going]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8542
Loc: Sonoran Desert
He is very good at keeping his feelings inside, thus we find ourselves in our current sitch.

When he chooses his hill to die on, there's no little room for retreat.

And I really would like him to be happy.
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Me 57/H 58
M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2231410 - 03/17/12 10:25 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
purgatory Offline
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Registered: 12/12/11
Posts: 825
Loc: Virginia
So nice to have both boys home smile I'm sure they enjoy being together too- it's god for S19 to have another guy to hang out with besides his dad- who has been leaning on him heavily for support.

Your H sounds like he's pouting in his place. And since he's upset S19, he no longer had a babysitter to take care of him... Aww, so sad.
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M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12

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#2231414 - 03/17/12 11:07 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: purgatory]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
You think your H`s miserable existence might be a catalyst for change?

You OTOH sound so at peace....yeah!

(((bugsy malone)))

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#2231424 - 03/17/12 12:19 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: rickb89]
ces67 Offline
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Registered: 12/23/11
Posts: 1021
Enjoy you sons labug! And rock on with your bad-self in the inner-zen, self-enlightend, makin' us smile life you are living!

(((LB)))
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Me:45, W:44
S:15, D:12
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
2 attempts at MC-stopped 09/13
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms

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#2231447 - 03/17/12 03:41 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: ces67]
Autumn Leaves Offline
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Registered: 11/01/11
Posts: 568
Loc: Pennsylvania
Enjoy your sons labug!! I'm glad you are in a good place ((labug))
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#2231562 - 03/18/12 11:11 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: Autumn Leaves]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8542
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Thanks, everyone!

I am having a great time and do feel pretty much at peace with my life.

What a difference a year makes. And you all have helped me get here.
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Me 57/H 58
M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2231581 - 03/18/12 02:27 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
Bugsy - glad the last year has helped you grow. Glad to know you through all of this!

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#2231582 - 03/18/12 02:54 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
Posts: 524
Loc: MS
What a difference a year makes. And you all have helped me get here.

You are the Shyt - Happy to hear this! smile
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Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

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