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#2231004 - 03/15/12 08:54 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
ces67 Offline
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Registered: 12/23/11
Posts: 1019
^^^^Sweet GAL! Have fun!
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S:15, D:12
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
2 attempts at MC-stopped 09/13
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#2231011 - 03/15/12 09:15 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: ces67]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/13/11
Posts: 750
Bugs.. you are truly a light when times are dark. (watch LOTR!!!)

love your wittiness.. your laughter.. just your plain 'ol awesomeness!

girl crushing on you.. just a little bit. smile
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Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
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#2231041 - 03/15/12 10:57 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
sayitaintso Offline
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Registered: 11/04/11
Posts: 951
Originally Posted By: labug

bloom where you are planted.



Incredible Post Bug!!! & Love this ^^^. I think its safe to say you have reached "vet" status on here. Your wisdom is needed and greatly appreciated.

Best to You!!
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Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

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#2231042 - 03/15/12 10:59 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: sayitaintso]
sayitaintso Offline
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Registered: 11/04/11
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Not sure if you were aspiring to be considered a "vet" but tuff ish cuz u r!
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Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley

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#2231068 - 03/16/12 12:35 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: sayitaintso]
keep_going Offline
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Registered: 06/14/11
Posts: 834
Labug - Great fun ahead of you! I am happy that you will be spending time with your S. No need to wish you a good time, cause knowing you,

You will make it happen!

PS - Can't wait to hear about the skydiving thing. I'd love to do it myself, except that I am afraid of heights, so this might be the answer for me! smile
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Me & H: 43
D6
D5
S2.5
Together: 21 years, M: 16 years
EA: 11/13/10
ILYBNILWY & Separation - 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12




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#2231321 - 03/16/12 09:36 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
zig Offline
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Registered: 02/21/12
Posts: 1855
Loc: KS
thanks for this post labug - like for everyone else , it helps me immensely.

i can't help feeling struck by your description of how things went for you over the first seven months - mine is so similar including finding this board around the 6th month - so hopefully i will be where you are - strong and wise in another few months

you encourage me alot - thankyou

zig
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M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"


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#2231331 - 03/16/12 10:04 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: zig]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8380
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Picked up The Tall Boy (S22) at ASU today and now I have both my boys IN THE HOUSE. smile I'm a happy Momma!

It's so good to hear their voices, chatting away.
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Me 57/H 58
M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2231335 - 03/16/12 10:06 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/13/11
Posts: 750
have a good weekend bugsy!
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Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11

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#2231357 - 03/16/12 11:42 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: barely floating]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
Bugsy - just read your post about the 1 yr mark. You're a beautiful woman and have helped so many people whilst on your own journey. You're something else.

Your post should go into the DB Hall of Fame

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#2231366 - 03/17/12 12:16 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: rickb89]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8380
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Reality check:

I'm sitting here listening to the sons talking-catching up on games. We stopped and got pizza for dinner and then they carried S22s stuff in from the car and have been making plans for the week. As I said, I'm content to have all my chicks home for awhile. I'm happy that they are moving off into their own lives but it's nice to have them around, too.

H on the other hand is alone in his tiny space and as S told me, "bored to death" as he hasn't been able to work since the wrist surgery. He can't drive much, so is pretty much stuck. S19 is currently mad at him about something so he hasn't been visiting or calling/texting him.

As I said to S22: "I have to believe he's happy with his choice and this is the life he wants to live."
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Me 57/H 58
M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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