Labug - Great fun ahead of you! I am happy that you will be spending time with your S. No need to wish you a good time, cause knowing you,
You will make it happen!
PS - Can't wait to hear about the skydiving thing. I'd love to do it myself, except that I am afraid of heights, so this might be the answer for me!
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
thanks for this post labug - like for everyone else , it helps me immensely.
i can't help feeling struck by your description of how things went for you over the first seven months - mine is so similar including finding this board around the 6th month - so hopefully i will be where you are - strong and wise in another few months
you encourage me alot - thankyou
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
I'm sitting here listening to the sons talking-catching up on games. We stopped and got pizza for dinner and then they carried S22s stuff in from the car and have been making plans for the week. As I said, I'm content to have all my chicks home for awhile. I'm happy that they are moving off into their own lives but it's nice to have them around, too.
H on the other hand is alone in his tiny space and as S told me, "bored to death" as he hasn't been able to work since the wrist surgery. He can't drive much, so is pretty much stuck. S19 is currently mad at him about something so he hasn't been visiting or calling/texting him.
As I said to S22: "I have to believe he's happy with his choice and this is the life he wants to live."
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss