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labug #2231367 03/17/12 04:16 AM
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Thanks, bf and Rick!


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2231400 03/17/12 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By: labug
As I said to S22: "I have to believe he's happy with his choice and this is the life he wants to live."


Labug - A reality check for your H, indeed...

And what a contrast - His sitch sounds so sad to me, while I can hear the sense of peace and contentment in your words. So glad you have all your chicks home. :-)


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D






keep_going #2231406 03/17/12 12:25 PM
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He is very good at keeping his feelings inside, thus we find ourselves in our current sitch.

When he chooses his hill to die on, there's no little room for retreat.

And I really would like him to be happy.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2231410 03/17/12 02:25 PM
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So nice to have both boys home smile I'm sure they enjoy being together too- it's god for S19 to have another guy to hang out with besides his dad- who has been leaning on him heavily for support.

Your H sounds like he's pouting in his place. And since he's upset S19, he no longer had a babysitter to take care of him... Aww, so sad.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12
purgatory #2231414 03/17/12 03:07 PM
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You think your H`s miserable existence might be a catalyst for change?

You OTOH sound so at peace....yeah!

(((bugsy malone)))

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Enjoy you sons labug! And rock on with your bad-self in the inner-zen, self-enlightend, makin' us smile life you are living!

(((LB)))


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
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Enjoy your sons labug!! I'm glad you are in a good place ((labug))


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Thanks, everyone!

I am having a great time and do feel pretty much at peace with my life.

What a difference a year makes. And you all have helped me get here.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2231581 03/18/12 06:27 PM
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Bugsy - glad the last year has helped you grow. Glad to know you through all of this!

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What a difference a year makes. And you all have helped me get here.

You are the Shyt - Happy to hear this! smile


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.
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