Wife in the slightly slower "Amtrack D mode" now..

[Truegritter]

Since this past Monday my feelings have evened out a bit. Not angry, not sad, just kinda of here?

Here?

Where?

I Know I seem vague bit I am serious.

I am not here to convince you stick it out for W while she is stil confused.

I am here to piont out that whether yor M ends or not you still have a choice.

Choice?

To confirm every doubt you have about love, your M, your W or whether you still believe the moon is in orbit or the sky is blue.

If you throw in the towel what does that say about you?

I don't know and it is not my place to demand answer from you but you damnwell beter be asking yourself,

You write your history and how you do, that will effect your future.

[sayitaintso]

I really get a lot out of your posts Grit, hope you are here to stay for a while for us. Thank you!!!

[Grmpy_Mnky]

Thanks Grit..

[rickb89]

Since this past Monday my feelings have evened out a bit. Not angry, not sad, just kinda of here?

Here?

Where?

I Know I seem vague bit I am serious.

I am not here to convince you stick it out for W while she is stil confused.

I am here to piont out that whether yor M ends or not you still have a choice.

Choice?

To confirm every doubt you have about love, your M, your W or whether you still believe the moon is in orbit or the sky is blue.

If you throw in the towel what does that say about you?

I don't know and it is not my place to demand answer from you but you damnwell beter be asking yourself,

You write your history and how you do, that will effect your future.

Not an easy question or choice huh Monkster? I am so with you on this dilemma! The hardest questions, the one's that strike closet to our cores, hit us the hardest and are the toughest to answer. No wonder we have a blowout every so often. Hell, teh WAS is allowed an unlimted number of blowouts.

[rickb89]

G Monk...have you ever discussed MC with W? Have you tried it with her? Just wondering if she would be open to that?

[Grmpy_Mnky]

Yeah I did. She refuses. "we are not good for each other" end of story?

[RoRoinMD]

Yeah I did. She refuses. "we are not good for each other" end of story?

My H said the same thing 3 months ago. I haven't brought it back up again. I have been wondering when a good time might be.

I guess there never really is a good time. You just say it or you don't.

[Grmpy_Mnky]

^^^ I know, right? WTF?

[Rick1963]

Mnky your W is very much like mine. In that they are done no more chances. pretty sad.

[purgatory]

Mnky... Welcome to purgatory (that place where you feel like you cant move forward or backward) like you said: just kinda here.

Dont beat yourself up about having a melt down, you're only human (well... More mnky than human) but you're allowed to change feelings and rethink choices..... I wish our WAS would take advantage of the ability to change their minds!

You aren't alone... Plenty of us here to keep you company