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kolja #2230044 03/13/12 03:33 AM
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Jane, you ignorant slut!


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2230069 03/13/12 04:47 AM
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Yep, that's the one!


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12
kolja #2230079 03/13/12 07:20 AM
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More Cowbell?


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
WenikiTiki #2230081 03/13/12 07:39 AM
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La - I've got the gloves and lube.. You get the syringe.. Together.. We can conquer the world!


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11
BFloat #2230111 03/13/12 11:47 AM
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Lol BF


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden





Rick1963 #2230130 03/13/12 01:22 PM
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Yes, bf, those 3 things can cure most things...

Except

I've got a disease and the only cure is__________________

See Wendy, above^^^^^^


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2230183 03/13/12 04:02 PM
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Y'all are all crazy and I appreciate the laughs this morning! Lawn chairs, quilts, popcorn and SNL reruns???? I thought we were walking to LA with a stop in Vegas?

Thinking of you and wishing you well, my friends.


Me: 44 H: 45
Married 22
S 18, S 16
Bomb 8/11, Second Bomb 1/12
kolja #2230184 03/13/12 04:07 PM
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Hello Ladyh,
Reading up on the last few posts on your thread, I sense the frustration of LBS, and I feel it also. I have lately found myself thinking how like an adolescent my w has acted over the last 9 mos. As someone mentioned here, I would say its accurate that most of us view taking vows as a sacred oath, which is why you do it before God and your family and friends.

I sometimes feel like my w took the vows hoping that things would work out, and if they didnt, oh well, nice try, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Very high schoolish, almost like dating someone senior year, and you know you are going away to college next year, so, you dump the boyfriend/girlfriend to experience the fun of life, because, well, after all your're getting old and you dont want to settle down without being happy.

Sorry for the hijack, Guess I'm frustrated too. Hope you are well,


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
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labug,
Yep, I'm still here, too. It's been quite a ride. I agree with gunny. It's appalling how our WASs are acting and how they're treating the marital vows right now.


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Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26
jbnati #2230495 03/14/12 04:23 PM
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Bugsy...just found your new thread. Someone posted above about how long this process takes. That stuck with me today as so true. I keep hearing that it takes 1 month for every year married. I'm starting to believe that. If the math is correct I have another year on the crazy train!

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