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#2229686 - 03/11/12 09:33 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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Today SDA Lady and I went for glow in the dark mini-golf in the afternoon and a stir fry restaurant for dinner. SDA Lady had never done mini-golf before and was jumping up and down and squealing like a kid, it was fun indeed! Mmm, I had a squid stir fry. We also went to see the 2.5 million dollar house that her employer has just purchased and SDA Lady will be moving to soon...living in the basement, of course. Next week we attempt bowling. After I dropped her off I went to visit my mother. Full day, not to mention church in the a.m. also.
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#2229743 - 03/12/12 08:14 AM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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Sounds like fun!

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#2229830 - 03/12/12 01:27 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: SunFunOne]
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We also stopped into a mall and as we are walking we come across this seating area with nice comfy chairs and couches. At both ends of one couch there are two guys asleep, both with mouths wide open. It was too funny. I had my camera and I said to SDA lady "I gotta get a picture of this" and she started laughing and telling me why I shouldn't do it. We went into a store and when we came out she was talking clothes and I said "I can't talk to you about this, I'm thinking about how to get that picture. Here you stand behind the couch and I'll take a picture of you and if those guys happen to be in it, well, what can you do" Again she started laughing and refusing to take part in my plan. Never did get my picture. Today she texted me "This morning I can't stop smiling thinking of you wanting to take pictures of people sleeping at the mall" I texted "I still have my camera, so I'm ready for any opportunity that comes my way" and she replied "and I hope I'm always at your side...to stop you!"
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#2229849 - 03/12/12 02:14 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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How sweet! You should have taken the picture anyway! What a riot!
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#2229954 - 03/12/12 06:14 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: mishka422]
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Originally Posted By: mishka422
How sweet! You should have taken the picture anyway! What a riot!


Well, we kept walking and there was another seating area further down and lo and behold before my eyes was a lady, sitting and clutching two bags in each hand...and sound asleep, mouth wide open too! SDA Lady looks at me and says "don't even think about it!". I said "I'm coming back to this mall without you and I'm gonna get these shots" It could have been Facebook heaven!
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#2230055 - 03/12/12 11:46 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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SDA Lady and I were talking tonight about the differences between male and female children. She said "I think your girls are so affectionate because of their Daddy" I said "really?" she replied "Yes, you're different than most men. You like to touch, hug and hold hands. You're very affectionate and that's one of the things I really like about you" Wow, that's so nice to hear.

Good news: SDA Lady hasn't heard from her doctor re the ultra sound results on her breast. No news is good news.
Bad news: She's 117 lbs now...the world is ending!!!
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#2230268 - 03/13/12 04:38 PM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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Zounds! You and SDA are so funny together. And so adorable. smile I wish I was 187lbs, never mind 117. Sigh!
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#2230437 - 03/14/12 09:59 AM Re: The thread continues... [Re: BeingMe]
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Thanks Being Me, there does seem to be something very nice happening between us. We really like each other! Last night she was crying on the phone. She'd worked 12 hours, hadn't had dinner and her employer asked her to put the kids to bed. This means another two hours of work for her as the kids need bathed and need story telling etc. Normally, this is not her job except on Saturday evenings. She was tired and hungry and just broke down in tears with me. Finally she asked to call me back, I told her to go ahead and have her cry...it was OK. She called me about 11:00pm and told me she was feeling better but her pillow was soaked with tears. We talked and she said "I'm so lucky to have you" She said "tomorrow is a brand new day". I texted her this morning "here are some hugs and kisses for your breakfast...no need to add milk, they are mushy enough already lol!". She replied "thx for the h & k's, I want the real ones now :)" Another day begins. I also texted my kids this morning just to tell them how much I love them. Yes, love is in the air lol!
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#2230440 - 03/14/12 10:04 AM Re: The thread continues... [Re: whatisis]
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So, you're in love?

Sounds like she is asking for the kiss.....

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#2230442 - 03/14/12 10:19 AM Re: The thread continues... [Re: gabbysmom23]
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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
So, you're in love?

Sounds like she is asking for the kiss.....


Am I in love? No. Warm feelings do not mean love. One day maybe, we'll see. But I am in love with my kids!
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