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#2230044 - 03/13/12 03:33 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: kolja]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/25/11
Posts: 8907
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Jane, you ignorant slut!
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Me 57/H 58
M36 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2230069 - 03/13/12 04:47 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
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Registered: 12/15/11
Posts: 335
Loc: WA
Yep, that's the one!
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Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12

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#2230079 - 03/13/12 07:20 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: kolja]
WenikiTiki Offline
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Registered: 11/10/11
Posts: 1078
Loc: Hawaii
More Cowbell?
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Me 54 XH 55 Sons age 29 & 24 M:32 T:33
D final 9/12
Sold the house, Progress is being made!

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#2230081 - 03/13/12 07:39 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: WenikiTiki]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/14/11
Posts: 757
La - I've got the gloves and lube.. You get the syringe.. Together.. We can conquer the world!
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Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11

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#2230111 - 03/13/12 11:47 AM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: barely floating]
Rick1963 Online
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Registered: 08/11/11
Posts: 2549
Loc: Piney Land
Lol BF
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M 51
W 50
D 17
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 11/12
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden






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#2230130 - 03/13/12 01:22 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: Rick1963]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/25/11
Posts: 8907
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Yes, bf, those 3 things can cure most things...

Except

I've got a disease and the only cure is__________________

See Wendy, above^^^^^^
_________________________
Me 57/H 58
M36 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2230183 - 03/13/12 04:02 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: labug]
ptcr Offline
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Registered: 02/13/12
Posts: 88
Y'all are all crazy and I appreciate the laughs this morning! Lawn chairs, quilts, popcorn and SNL reruns???? I thought we were walking to LA with a stop in Vegas?

Thinking of you and wishing you well, my friends.
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Me: 44 H: 45
Married 22
S 18, S 16
Bomb 8/11, Second Bomb 1/12

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#2230184 - 03/13/12 04:07 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: kolja]
gunny Offline
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Registered: 08/22/11
Posts: 682
Loc: new jersey
Hello Ladyh,
Reading up on the last few posts on your thread, I sense the frustration of LBS, and I feel it also. I have lately found myself thinking how like an adolescent my w has acted over the last 9 mos. As someone mentioned here, I would say its accurate that most of us view taking vows as a sacred oath, which is why you do it before God and your family and friends.

I sometimes feel like my w took the vows hoping that things would work out, and if they didnt, oh well, nice try, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Very high schoolish, almost like dating someone senior year, and you know you are going away to college next year, so, you dump the boyfriend/girlfriend to experience the fun of life, because, well, after all your're getting old and you dont want to settle down without being happy.

Sorry for the hijack, Guess I'm frustrated too. Hope you are well,
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m 53
XW 47
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!

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#2230193 - 03/13/12 04:52 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: gunny]
jbnati Offline
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Registered: 02/27/11
Posts: 2748
Loc: Cincinnati
labug,
Yep, I'm still here, too. It's been quite a ride. I agree with gunny. It's appalling how our WASs are acting and how they're treating the marital vows right now.
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Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26

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#2230495 - 03/14/12 04:23 PM Re: Dagnabit! [Re: jbnati]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
Bugsy...just found your new thread. Someone posted above about how long this process takes. That stuck with me today as so true. I keep hearing that it takes 1 month for every year married. I'm starting to believe that. If the math is correct I have another year on the crazy train!

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