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#2229926 - 03/12/12 04:49 PM Re: Fear and Love [Re: AlwaysTrying]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
I wish people in new relationships have a program available to them that lays out the emotional and practical realities of M. I'm sure that stuff is out there, it doesn't seem to be obvious though that its available.

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#2229972 - 03/12/12 08:07 PM Re: Fear and Love [Re: rickb89]
ces67 Offline
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Registered: 12/23/11
Posts: 980
^^^^
sad part is when you're starting a new relationship most people don't realize they need that stuff....
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Me:44, W:43
S:15, D:11
M:21, T:24
Bomb: July 2010
Stopped MC for 2nd time late summer 2013
Dropping the rope...

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#2229973 - 03/12/12 08:12 PM Re: Fear and Love [Re: ces67]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 7794
Loc: Sonoran Desert
I have to start a new thread, Dagnabit!
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Me 56/H 57
M 35 S 24 S 21
Bomb 3/11 He moved out 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 He's home now

The enemy is fear. We think it is hate but, it is fear. Gandhi


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#2229976 - 03/12/12 08:15 PM Re: Fear and Love [Re: labug]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 7794
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Dagnabit!

New thread.
_________________________
Me 56/H 57
M 35 S 24 S 21
Bomb 3/11 He moved out 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 He's home now

The enemy is fear. We think it is hate but, it is fear. Gandhi


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#2230921 - 03/15/12 02:25 PM Re: Fear and Love [Re: labug]
mimivac Offline
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Registered: 01/30/12
Posts: 158
Loc: Washington DC
Originally Posted By: labug
I did have one weird moment. There were a lot of people there, lots of young families and couples and I thought "Wonder who of these is going to have the bomb dropped on them this week?"

I quickly dropped that junk mail in the trash and moved on.


You know it's funny you say that. Once you go through something you tend to wonder about/notice whether other people are going through it, too. When I was first diagnosed, I would be at the metro, look at all the people and think, "I wonder how many of these people have had cancer? I wonder how many will?" It's distressing, but also makes you feel less alone to think that others have experienced the same things. Kind of like this board! smile

Mimi
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M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids.
Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12
Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12
Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12

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