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Today was one of those for me.


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M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Yes....we do.


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So sorry you had one of *those* days frown They always catch me off guard and it's seems to send me into a tailspin of confusion and emotional messiness.

Thanks for coming here to vent it out. (((((michael))))))

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oh yes.. definitely have had those days.

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Well, tomorrow is D day. We will see if it is final or postponed, either way I expect OM to be there and that bites!! Haven't seen or talked to W since the 13th. I still just can't believe that she is doing this to us, it just makes no sense. I just want this to be over already.


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I'm so sorry OM is so visible in your Ws life. And to take him to he family's???!!! Wow! No respect! I definitely get those moments where I miss him being here. It I need to remember a few things when I do. -this is a moment and it will pass -I appreciate that my present sitch is a lot better than lets say 2 mos ago AND -take deep breaths
Wishing you all the best tomorrow! We will b there in spirit wink


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Michael, I'll be thinking about (((you)))tomorrow.


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Mr my prayers are with u.


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Originally Posted By: mr mr
Well, tomorrow is D day. We will see if it is final or postponed, either way I expect OM to be there and that bites!! Haven't seen or talked to W since the 13th. I still just can't believe that she is doing this to us, it just makes no sense. I just want this to be over already.


Hold you head high today! You are clearly the better person in all this crap of a sitch.

Thursday, life for you begins anew! smile


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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
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