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i have to echo labug..

unless you are well versed in these classes of meds.. it's best to leave it to someone who is.

a common problem is that people tend to adjust their meds and dosage thinking they feel better or want to be more in control only to realize it does the opposite.


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I am pretty concerned. I asked her to talk to the psychiatrist about it Friday at her appt. Weirder than usual lately. S13 is noticing it big time. I am actually wondering if she will live thru this...i mean this whole breakdown.

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Hey Rick, Sorry to hear this. Has to be scary for you & the boys to watch. Is there anyone your W would listen to more willingly about this? I know we're not suppose to bring others into the sitch unneccesarily but if you're really concerned maybe there is someone else she'd be willing to listen to.

Hopefully she'll take your advice and talk to her doc on Friday. Good to hear she's got an appointment already.

Hang in there! =@@= (this is the simple I came up with for a fist bump)


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((Rick))

How are you doing, Rick? I can't even imagine how tough it must be for you right now. Your W is sure going through some serious stuff!

Thinking of you!

CES - nice fist bump!


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oops, meant "symbol" not simple. (can't blame an i-phone so - stupid fingers...)


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Thanks guys! Impressive fist bump CES.

W, will only listen to me in her sitch but on her own internal clock, so I can help occasionally. Has pretty much removed herself from all family and close friends. Very tough times here....handling this is like defusing nukes....a lot at stake...and i refuse not to work and focus on me too....and refuse to not find happiness in the moments in life. Her psyche appt is tomorrow.

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Hope the session has a positive impact for your W today.

Very wise to take care of yourself! Can't take care of anyone else if your own tank is empty.

They just opened a fitness center at work and have a "yoga for beginners" class. May have to try it just from all your comments about it!


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Originally Posted By: ces67
Hope the session has a positive impact for your W today.

Very wise to take care of yourself! Can't take care of anyone else if your own tank is empty.

They just opened a fitness center at work and have a "yoga for beginners" class. May have to try it just from all your comments about it!


Thanks CES....big day today for W...not looking good to start the day...she's just above water I think.

Yoga...I'm so glad you will try it. It will work your entire body down to the cellular level, and works for your mind and soul. Certainly helps the DB effort!

Have a good day my friend.

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Hey Rick, this was in my reading today:

It's good to care about other people and their feelings; it's essential to care about ourselves too. Sometimes to take good care of ourselves we must make a choice.

Good luck, my friend.


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I really hope W has a prodcutive talk and the day ends better than it started for you.

Not gonna give ya a hug...need a few beers first.


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