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#2225999 - 02/29/12 03:20 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Mach1]
labug Offline
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Not being a LOTR fan, you pretty much lost me. I guess you'll have to spell out the parallels for me, maybe in Star Wars speak...
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She could never go back and make some of the details pretty. All she
could do was move forward and make the whole beautiful
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#2226001 - 02/29/12 03:27 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: labug]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
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Loc: MS
Bug, I'll work on that. Afterall, Luke sure was a whiney B. grin
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#2226002 - 02/29/12 03:29 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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^^^I think I see an opportunity for a solid twelve hours of GAL for the bug.
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#2226027 - 02/29/12 04:22 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Mach1]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
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Originally Posted By: Mach1
Since ya'll are in the same place.....

Let me paint this for you.

If I were to ask you to walk from NYC to LA, each of you would probably tell me to F off. An I would agree with you.

If I were to promise each of you a better, restored marriage when you got to LA, every one of you would sign up for that walk....

Right ???

How many would make it ???

And if I told you that there was only a small chance, that if you made the walk , that you would reap the benefits of a better marriage...

How many then ???

How many have what is inside, to actually SEE if they could make it, on miniscule chances ???

If there was a one in ten chance, would you take it ?

If there was a one in a thousand chance, would you take it ?

Would you burn everything you had, to be the one in that equation ?

For most people, they would focus on the destination, and feel failure at almost every step. Feeling that failure would lead them to drop out of the journey.

If you look down the road, you will fail yourself.....

However, if you were to look at your feet, and think about one step at a time, instead of the destination, how many could go much farther than what you think you can ???

This journey the LBS is on, is much similar. We have an unknown destination, that MAY lead us back to our spouse, it may not. The road isn't always clear, and the markers are non-existent.

It is our faith that leads us daily, sometimes hourly, sometimes by the minute......

What we focus on, is where our mind goes.

Are you looking at LA ???

Or are you looking at your feet in Jersey ???


Jesus...that helps! Master Khan - I can't say enough how much you are helping people. Thank you.

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#2226030 - 02/29/12 04:32 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: rickb89]
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Registered: 09/25/11
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Loc: California
just had to post and tell you guys (lb, grmpy, mach..) I read your post alot and, most of the time, they make me LOL!!...this being on of them. thanks for the laughs when I really need them..:)
and Mach...that was pretty deep reading for so early in the morning..:)
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Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...

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#2226034 - 02/29/12 04:40 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/14/11
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In the apocalypse.. I would grab one of those big shopping carts from costco.. Throw the kids in it.. Then start walking. wink

bug - you have not seen LOTR? Maybe good to watch with your son!

One ring to rule them all.. Sort of like a wedding ring?
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#2226038 - 02/29/12 04:43 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: barely floating]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
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Monkster - you need to go to Purg's thread "If you like Pina Colada's" and find the link there! Trust me on this one!

BTW, Monkchip - I am walking to LA from Jersey just like you are. I started the journey a year ago and its been a ballbuster the whole way. Nonetheless, its the best thing I've ever done for myself and even my W.

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#2226043 - 02/29/12 04:52 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: rickb89]
labug Offline
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Loc: Sonoran Desert
Can we take a break in Vegas, baby, Vegas?
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She could never go back and make some of the details pretty. All she
could do was move forward and make the whole beautiful
~Terri St. Cloud

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#2226057 - 02/29/12 05:27 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: labug]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
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Loc: MS
Such a long a$$ walk. I'm gonna whine all the way just like Froto. Must stop in Vegas! Never been. Maybe we all need a meet up lol..
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#2226070 - 02/29/12 05:53 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: labug]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
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Originally Posted By: labug
Can we take a break in Vegas, baby, Vegas?


You mean to take a break like in Hangover? Okay, I'm in.

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