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Yes, she did...but she'd dated the guy for years.


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Btw, Voldy got knocked up by her bf a number of months before meeting me. She had an abortion. Yet she still played the Asian lady game early in our R and we did not have sex until we were engaged to marry. Because people make a mistake once doesn't mean they will do so again. SDA Lady may feel the same way and is very cautious about getting into that situation again.


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I was only trying to point out that pre-marital sex is not as tabu as we might be led to believe.

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I think in Asian culture it's just more hidden and less socially acceptable for women. Males can do whatever they want!


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Today I am officially divorced.


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Wii - I'm sorry that this happened to you. But happy that the paperwork is finally over! I never understood people celebrating their divorces, until mine was done - it took so long, I was thrilled to just be done with it.

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Sorry for your today but happy for your Tommorrow
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Sorry buddy, but ONWARD AND UPWARD!


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bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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Yeah - what Barb said

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thanks for your kind thoughts everyone!
I got an email from ex yesterday:

Thanks, Whatis. I got the letter. I'm sad that it didn't work out. Wish many things could have done differently. I'm sure we are still very much in each other's life because of our amazing girls, and also, just being divorced does not take away what was nice in the past. Take good care!

Nice note.


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