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#2226775 - 03/02/12 04:51 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Mach1]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
Posts: 524
Loc: MS
Good. I gues I need to type that a 1000 times for practice?
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Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

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#2226776 - 03/02/12 04:55 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Mach1]
purgatory Offline
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Registered: 12/13/11
Posts: 825
Loc: Virginia
Mnky gets a gold star!! And he was genuine- that's a bonus!!

BF is right about the texts- she can't just text you to chat b/c she might think you'll get the wrong idea. But he wanted to reach out to you, and finances are a safe topic for her.

She flat out told you that she doesn't believe the changes are permanent- now you know what she's looking for.

Keep it up, and she'll start to be more intrigued.
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M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12

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#2226790 - 03/02/12 05:09 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
labug Online
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Registered: 11/25/11
Posts: 8918
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Originally Posted By: Grmpy_Mnky
BTW - of course I said it to get her attention, but I meant it! When we see each other every month or so I've come to a point where I choose my words very carefully with her.


Doing the Happy Monkey dance!
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Me 57/H 58
M36 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2226792 - 03/02/12 05:17 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: labug]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/14/11
Posts: 757
I guess you'll have to type gues a 1000 times for practice too! Wow! Great GAL activity!
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Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
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#2226794 - 03/02/12 05:20 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: barely floating]
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Registered: 11/04/08
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Originally Posted By: barely floating
I guess you'll have to type gues a 1000 times for practice too! Wow! Great GAL activity!



LMAO....

How is that opposable thumb thing workin for ya ????

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#2226798 - 03/02/12 05:23 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: barely floating]
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Registered: 11/25/11
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Loc: Sonoran Desert
Originally Posted By: barely floating
I guess you'll have to type gues a 1000 times for practice too! Wow! Great GAL activity!


bf being brutal this morning!
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Me 57/H 58
M36 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2226801 - 03/02/12 05:30 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: labug]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
Posts: 524
Loc: MS
GUESS i'm going to type all my posts in WORD first.;)
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Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

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#2226820 - 03/02/12 06:18 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
31nheartbroken Offline
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Registered: 01/30/12
Posts: 137
Just re-read them and re-read them like 50 times before posting!! That's what I do!! LOL!! That's a little extra GAL time too!! smile
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Me31 H33
M11
T15
S10, D4
H deploys 01/11
H R&R two weeks 10/11
ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11
homecoming 1/12
pos D 1/13

Let the "real" battle begin!!

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#2226821 - 03/02/12 06:22 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
rickb89 Offline
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
Originally Posted By: Grmpy_Mnky
Thanks everbody. I hope it gave her pause to reflect on the good stuff. I guess the zerbit I blew on the dog's belly impressed her. Lol

For those of you newer than I: listen to the "Illuminati". They know what they are taliking about...


Monkman - I am so happy for you. Hearing this really made my day, and I'm sure you must be so glad to see that time indeed can help. Remember we were talking about that, how you were so early into your sitch that given time it may change? I think that's the case here, DB principals in action.

Illuminati huh? Didn't know you were a fellow conspiracy theorist!

Great job Monkster. Keep on keeping on.

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#2226826 - 03/02/12 06:27 PM Re: Wife in "D - freight train mode" Pt.2 [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
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Registered: 10/04/11
Posts: 1119
Originally Posted By: Grmpy_Mnky
Good. I gues I need to type that a 1000 times for practice?


What was that saying? If a 1000 monkeys typed at a thousand keyboards for 1000 days...one of them would turn out a best seller...I don't know...it was something like that!

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