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Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Soul.Searching] #2294786
10/31/12 11:07 AM
10/31/12 11:07 AM
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Hi I made several posts in the last few days and none are showing up...

frown be nice to get feedback.


Me:36 W:34
T:15 M:10
3 kids
S8 S5 S1
D-Day 9/17/2012
OM Confirmed 9/18/2012

Month of November found my balls
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Cadet] #2318785
01/30/13 04:20 PM
01/30/13 04:20 PM
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Posts: 12,864
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Going to Post this here so I can find it again if I need it.

How to find a user on DB

Go up to
MY STUFF
Click on Watch List
Click on Watched Users
Click on Edit Watched Users
Click on Add a user to list
Type in user - "Never Give UP"
Select her as a watched user.
Click on her name
Click on show all posts.
Click on Topics

Hope that helps.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Cadet] #2318792
01/30/13 04:38 PM
01/30/13 04:38 PM
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One more to add.

How to quote

Simplest method to quote is to use the quote button at the bottom.

Next method is to copy what you want to quote and use the fifth button from the right in REPLY mode,
insert text between brackets.

Last and hardest method is to type
I have left out the trailing bracket so you can see what to type.

[quote=tonibertha]How to quote[/quote

Use the PREVIEW POST button before you hit submit so you can see what your post will look like.

Hope that helps someone


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Cadet] #2338390
04/12/13 01:30 PM
04/12/13 01:30 PM
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Since I seem to be using this thread for helpful hints about using the DB forum, here is another tidbit.

If you are reading someones posts, using the SHOW POSTS function.
And they have a lot of posts, you may want to go to a certain page of the listing.
So in the bottom right corner it say pages 1-xxx
Then there is a black downward facing arrow.
If you click on that arrow then you can enter a page number.

Took me about 2 years to figure that out.

Also the forum defaults can be changed to put more or less posts on a page.

Or you can change what is displayed to look at older posts.

There is a lot of information here but it takes some work to find it all.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Cadet] #2346538
05/08/13 09:18 AM
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Hi d mod, I started my initial thread (H is back in Replay after a brief period of sanity) this past Sunday. I know it takes you some time to plow thru all the posts of folks under moderation, but I'm starting to wonder if mine was lost somehow. Should I repost it or wait longer? Thanks
Linda M

Me - 60
Husb - 59
Married - 38 years
2 Sons - 27, 38
Bomb - 1/10
EA - 9/09-9/11, 7/12-9/12, 1/13-present
PA - 2 weeks in 3/13
Still living in same house "as friends"


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: RosaLinda] #2347639
05/10/13 07:01 PM
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My thread was posted this morning, thanks so much!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: RosaLinda] #2353156
05/29/13 03:42 PM
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Perhaps more for those who have been at this a little while and thinking that DB is not working for them or wondering WHY it seems not to be working, but also for newbies to help them understand the pitfalls of not doing the work:

Why You Havent Seen Change in Your Marriage

Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: ~ kd ~] #2355560
06/06/13 01:29 AM
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Is there a way to delete a post?I accidentally posted twice and just wanted to "declutter."


M-38;H38
M15
D13 & D7
BD 3/2012


Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: GotoGirl] #2355624
06/06/13 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By: GotoGirl
Is there a way to delete a post?I accidentally posted twice and just wanted to "declutter."

Press the NOTIFY button and ask a moderator on the one to delete.
I am not sure whether it is allowed or not.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: General Info for Newcomers [Re: Cadet] #2361889
06/26/13 09:26 PM
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What do I do if I completely failed and W wants D. Specifically asked me to let her go?


Me 32
W 30
Married 11
D10, S6
BD#1 January of 09
OM#1 2005
OM#2 Dec 08
OM#3 March/April of 09
Back together August 09
OM#4 May 13
W moves out June 2013
BD#2 June 21 2013
Filed July 2013
D final in Oct
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