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I posted my story yesterday. How long does it take to be approved or denied?


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Originally Posted By: Rick1963
I posted my story yesterday. How long does it take to be approved or denied?
Its a shame that there isnt a guide thats sent out to you so you know what to expect huh? It takes courage to join and share and then you are left with no response.





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I apologize. We strive for 24 hour approval and we're close right now.

With a good posting history you will be off full moderation in short order.


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help i need some my life seems over i need advice to stop my divorce im devestatd my wife is in love with someone else ive been married 11 yrs been with her for 17. I have three beautiful daughters who dont deserve this.

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Hi I posted a new topic yesterday, it said it's awaiting moderation, but I still can't see it. How long does this process take?
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I'm sure there are good reasons for moderating. When I was a member here many years gone by, under a different id that I can't even recall. Moderation was not part of the process. Sort of sad. I recall the incredible feelings of despair when I was in the throws of divorce. 24hrs felt like a lifetime and the littlest things, like a response from someone, brought some essence of calm.

Might I suggest that moderators bump postings to the top so at least they don't fall off page 1. Or possibly a methodology for users to verify who they are to moderators. Allowing them to be removed from the moderation list sooner... Just some thoughts. I can see some people are frustrated and I understand their pain.

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Excellent ideas. We actually have discussed some of your same ideas, and when I remember, I do try to bump posts.

Thanks for your ideas!


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So how about this. New users who agree to provide a cell number get a txt back with a code. They can enter the code into the site and be removed from the moderator list. That way if they get their id revoked you have a cell number on file to cross reference, should they attempt getting a new id.

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Why can't I edit my signature? No matter what I put into the field, it says I need to shorten it.


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dbmod- why r my posts not showing up?

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