That's awesome, bustorama! Congratulations! It's very refreshing to get a ray of hope when many of us here are still in the trenches. Thanks for sharing!
Butorama, Just catching up on your sitch, thanks very much for taking the time to put down your experiences. As JS, JB and everyone else above has stated, it really is a shot in the arm for those of us who are caught up in the limbo. Really needed this today! Thanks!!
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
Awesome story Busto. Hope you keep checking in from time to time. Alot of people could use your insight. Don't forget to move this to the Success stories area.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Man, you did an amazing job and will continue to. You took some great advice and you followed it. You also adapted it to your sitch and look at you now! I wish the best for you Bro. I'm glad you are paying your knowledge forward.
It's not up to you whether she comes back or not. It's her choice to come back or not, but try not to put your focus on that. Put your focus on bettering yourself as an individual and in relationships. On living the best life you can. You will succeed that way no matter her choice.
Busto thanks for coming back to share that.
Congratulations on the new development. Your post is spot on.
Most important I think is the fact that you figured out what wasn't working and stopped.
Let her alone.
Took yourself out of the equation.
Removed the bullseye from your back.
And lived your life like she wasn't coming back.
Then it was YOUR choice to make.
Good for you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
