Over with nothing too painful. Financially I did ok she pays for first $15k loss on the house and 2/3rds after that. She pays all income taxes this year. Everything else as is. One thing I found out is that once student loans are consolidated they stay that way forever. So for the next 20 years we both have to make the payment. We had some time together alone in the hall and just bs'd about family and such. Whole thing went pretty smooth. I was calm and collected the whole time. At least until I got to my truck and cried like a little girl. All that is left is to sign the final papers and the judge will sign off. Officially divorced in 3 weeks
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
GB... that doesnt mean "the end" ? You can still fight for her... I am pulling for you.. At the same time, GAL!!.. it will brng a smile to your face and people around you will notice...
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
Yesterday was somewhat of a relief. After 8 mos of this I at least know how everything will be divided. Today is a little tougher as now I know that it is only a matter of time and things will be over.
Thanks to all that posted to me through this. Especailly PDT, R2C and Stronger.
GB - I know you are somewhat in the same boat that I am, so just wanted to check in and say hello. I thought of your sitch and a lot of others' on this site when I was in church yesterday. How are you doing? What is new with you? hugs, hhh
