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(((Frank)))

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Happy Birthday Frank.

Best wishes for the new year.


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feliz compleanos Frank.....


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Thanks all.

At about 3 pm I got a text from STBXW

"Happy Birthday!"

I didn't respond because it makes no sense for someone who has caused so much damage to myself and my daughters to wish me a happy birthday unless it's to relieve some guilt on her part. I don't want to validate that for her. I don't think she's sincere.

Also haven't gotten any Divorce paperwork signing requests still.


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Still no divorce paper signing request. Two weeks ago she had to have it done, then she was 'too busy getting ready for her trip. Now what? She's been back for 5 days.


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Still no divorce paper signing request. Two weeks ago she had to have it done, then she was 'too busy getting ready for her trip. Now what? She's been back for 5 days.


AND....

I am just guessing but... I bet you have thought about it each and every day....

Stop Frank, Don't you think it's time to just let whatever is going to be, be? Your gonna drive yourself nuts with this stuff...


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Originally Posted By: frank_D
Still no divorce paper signing request. Two weeks ago she had to have it done, then she was 'too busy getting ready for her trip. Now what? She's been back for 5 days.


AND....

I am just guessing but... I bet you have thought about it each and every day....

Stop Frank, Don't you think it's time to just let whatever is going to be, be? Your gonna drive yourself nuts with this stuff...


Ian


I'm already nuts. crazy

Seriously, you're right. I accept that what will be, will be.


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One of the important things to remember is that, as a man among men, I am not expected to be perfect. I am expected to be the spiritual leader of my family and to do that I must rely upon other men for support.

The healthiest men on this board are those who have learned this lesson. I learned it 4 years ago during DB / OM #1 and it healed my family. Then I forgot it. Now, I am learning it again for good.


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You keep talking like this and I'm thinking you're going to be sitting in a sweat tent beating a drum with some other guys...

You aren't expected to be.

You are.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

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Boom, Boom, BOOM, BOOM, Boom, Boom, BOOM, BOOM....


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