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#1799264 - 07/11/09 09:28 PM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
Puppy Dog Tails Offline
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I understand, Doodles. I'm glad you're keeping busy -- you sound SO much better than you did just a couple of weeks ago! grin

Puppy
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#1799387 - 07/12/09 07:40 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: Puppy Dog Tails]
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u think so puppy? thanks. im trying. i think it is all a process.

so, psycho girl strikes again.

6 private calls in a row, in a matter of 2 minutes at 8:30 pm...

then, while i was sleeping, phone started ringing at 11:25, i do the pick up/hang up to keep the phone from waking my son.

she must have called 6 more times before i was able to think straight (since i was sleeping) and put the private call block on. *77 if anyone is wondering.

the question is - what is up and where was he?

not that i will be asking him lol.

i hate being woken up by the phone, especially since i dont have an easy time of falling asleep after that.
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me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1799389 - 07/12/09 07:51 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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figured out how to check the phone call log online.

she called 11 times last night between 11:25 - 11:27...i think 5 of the calls came in after the private call block.

6 times at 830.

this seems excessive
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me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1799392 - 07/12/09 08:06 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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can you switch the phone off when you go to bed? That will give you the sleep you need and annoy her when there's no pickup.

C

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#1799395 - 07/12/09 08:25 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: dolphin_05]
mdoodles Offline
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i cant switch the phone to off, what if someone really needs to reach me?

the best i can do is put the call block on, assuming i can still see the call log that she tried to call.

i want to get it on record that she is calling so many times.

im trying to figure out what is up...

she used to search his phone but i cant say she is reading texts between us because i havent been texting him for the last 3 weeks.

she will see phone calls but we have to talk, we have a child together.

i really truly do not wish to talk to her so i wont know why she is calling i guess.

it just shows something is up.
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me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1799402 - 07/12/09 09:09 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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Do you have Comcast Digital Voice by any chance? You mentioned being able to see the calls online. If so, just print them out, and keep a record of them.

Puppy
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#1799407 - 07/12/09 09:19 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: Puppy Dog Tails]
mdoodles Offline
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funny u should say that - no, i have a different company, but i just got finished printing out all calls going back to april.

a real pattern to the calls and something interesting -

on the night h came home in april, he had called in the afternoon, after i had called him and while my son was one with h, i see now that ow had beeped in, with her number unblocked!

i never even saw that! i had received a text from her minutes later and several calls that night when he was home.

i highlighted all calls.
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me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1799412 - 07/12/09 09:30 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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Very good!
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#1799485 - 07/12/09 12:53 PM Re: he was back, i think [Re: Puppy Dog Tails]
mdoodles Offline
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so i discovered something interesting that is good to know - if you block private calls and someone attempts to call you with a *67, they wont get through BUT it will show up on your phone account with their number as an attempt.

interesting.

im going to keep the block off to get her repeated calling for my file.

but i found that information interesting.
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me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1799501 - 07/12/09 01:38 PM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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Damn, you're good. cool whistle

Now, you can move on, and just print that out once/month, right?

Puppy
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