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Yes, you will be OK.


"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
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Wow, this hangover sucks and I didn't even drink. cry grin

H emailed me back thanking me for my email, saying we should put it behind us and he feels like a shmuck.

My impulse was to fix that but I let it go. I have no control over how he experiences our time together (duh...learn, re-learn)

We spoke because S9 isn't feeling well. I was so normal and amicable, it kind of weirds me out.

Oh well, gonna try to drop down for a nap.

I sure feel like I blew it last night...in so many ways. OMG...that sounds so bad. LOL. At least I have my sense of humor.



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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
I sure feel like I blew it last night...

uh huh! ;-)

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LOL. At least I have my sense of humor.

You goof up, make mistakes and still find a way to laugh at yourself...sign of very strong character and someone who is comfortable in their skin! smile

Not that you did anything wrong of course :-O


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AAK - LOL! Oh, God! (sorry, laughing WITH you, not AT you!)

I was just thinking, after I read about your little excursion last night... How appropriate your Subject is today! LOL

Hey, in case it makes you feel better. I went out w/girlfriends last night for Chocolate Night at a great restaurant. I decided champaigne sounded superb w/chocolate. I had ONLY two glasses... Ended up telling one of my friends I thought she was too ugly for her husband. (No way to take that sh*t back!)

At least you mess up, and are still NICE!


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Originally Posted By: mindfull
Ended up telling one of my friends I thought she was too ugly for her husband. (No way to take that sh*t back!)

That is awesome!! Can't get more mindfull than that...LOL! (with you, not at you)


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Ahhh- "MIndful," when we fall, we fall hard.

I didn't even have alcohol to blame my behavior on! But, I get it, all the sweet talking worked...what can I say...even a broken clock gets the time right twice a day as they say...score 1 for H...

we're talking amicably.

i feel like a truck ran over my head.

but it's all good. keeping my PMA... sick mad crazy grin



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RedSox -

Yea, the passing at DROP OFF (at school) this am was interesting.

Feel free to laugh AT me. Maybe I'll learn to shut the he!l up BEFORE I talk mindLESS!


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Yea, the passing at DROP OFF (at school) this am was interesting.


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I call it "foot in mouth disease" and I've got it bad.



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for me it's a lose connection between my mouth and my brain.


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I sure feel like I blew it last night...in so many ways


Oh suuuuure -- rub it in.

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Sounds like you're already regrouping. Which is cool.

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