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Boat14 #1841479 09/21/09 05:37 PM
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Nope but I know how to get one.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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Must have something to do with the hair flip....


Smooches!

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I LOVE silence.....It's the quietest thing I have....


Too funny. I get sensory overload sometimes and then everything is off and the kids need to have earphones or be in their rooms (that's fairly easy with teenage D's).

Better hurry on your idea, could be a real money maker. Even if it's a pet rock thing, look at the $$$ he made.

Grace_O #1841650 09/21/09 08:34 PM
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Awwww.....Thanks Gracie !

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Can't access the alt from here, but I knew you would enjoy that video...ahhh, yes I forgot about Scarlett J...

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bomb 5/09
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Life is all about Plan B
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What's not to like? tee hee





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I have been just stupidly tired. I'm not sure if it is my life catching up with me, depression, the flu or what, but man it is wiping me out. I can fall asleep, I just get up every hour so it doesn't feel like I get any rest. Ah, rest. Oh how I miss you.

I have this feeling ... like I want to relax, but am afraid to for some reason. Afraid isn't a good word for it. I don't know what it would take to get me to that point where I feel like I can let go. Exercise doesn't really help either. I'm not sure if it is tied to the whole D ordeal. Maybe my body is just telling me it is time to not be so wound up all the time. Ha ha. It is still morning and I'm already dreaming of sleep.





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Do I still love her ?

Can I forgive her ?

Do I believe in the condition called MLC, and is she going through one ?


#3 ... does it change things if she is not?





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MW,


I don't believe so....

I think it is about Faith, and Hope....

Standing doesn't mean standing still.

I think the answers lie within the questions....

Every crisis is different, much as every stand is different.

Your decisions are all that matter now for you...

Answer me this MW.....

Do you believe that MLC exists ?

Do you think that she is going through this ?

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This is my big dilemma. I've spoken with Jim about this too. I'm just curious as to your take on it. I believe in that the MLC is a real thing. It would be hard NOT to. I have two thoughts about my W in relation to all of this.

1) Maybe she's not going through an MLC. Maybe she has another issue that she's not telling me. Even if that is true, it doesn't change how I respond to her. We've talked about that before.

B) I keep hoping that eventually she'll come out of the MLC fog or whatever. There's no guarantee that she'll talk to me about any of it even if she does. I think maybe this is my worry here. She may hit bottom, deal and move on. I could never know. If she's not in an MLC, this part never happens. If she is, it still might not happen.

I'm not looking for a guarantee ... just processing.





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IF.....a frog had wings, he wouldn't bump his a$$ when he hopped either....

A lot of if's bro.

Just remember that whether or not she is MLC, it still cannot stop YOU from living.

These things happen on God's time, not ours....

And this is HER crisis...

Do you believe that every person in their lifetime goes through major life evaluations ?

Transitional periods ?

One cannot run forever from their issues....

And if they do ? I wouldn't want to be around them anyway....

One step forward my friend....another tomorrow.

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