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#1850019 - 10/04/09 07:09 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: JAK58]
Matilda2 Offline
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enjoy what you have! So, how's the new job?

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#1850275 - 10/05/09 08:39 AM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: Matilda2]
JAK58 Offline
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Registered: 12/04/06
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Loc: Upstate,N.Y.
Hi Mat,

Don"t have the new job yet. The general election is on Nov. 3rd. The primary was for the republican position on the ballot and I won that spot. So I will be running Republican and Independent.
It looks good for me though so keep your fingers crossed for me.

Journaling:

Every thing continues to go well. We are working together very hard on the "broken house" (as my grand boys like to call it)
The out side is finished, now onto the inside.

H seems content and sometimes I wonder if he will cycle. Time will tell but maybe he is coming farther along on his journey. He seems to want to spend a lot of time with me and is almost smothering.

Me I am taking one day at a time and focusing more on me. Actually focusing on getting the house done. Going out with the girls this weekend to dinner and to see John Edwards. (the psychic) I could use the break.

JAK
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You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

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#1850364 - 10/05/09 11:04 AM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: JAK58]
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Jo,

So glad to hear there has been a positive change.

Hugs
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Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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#1850714 - 10/05/09 07:06 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: Yoyowife]
fightingirish Offline
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Registered: 06/22/07
Posts: 2866
Loc: USA
jak,

Sounds like a good time!! Think of me while your there.

I will talk to you before the week is out.

(((hugs)))
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me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

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#1861858 - 10/25/09 01:19 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: fightingirish]
Matilda2 Offline
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Registered: 10/08/05
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Hello. I am not here often, but wanted you to know you were still in my thoughts. Job and fact I don't have a computer at home makes my time more limited. Glad you are taking care of yourself!

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#1862212 - 10/26/09 11:34 AM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: Matilda2]
JAK58 Offline
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Registered: 12/04/06
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Hi Mat, Yoyo, and friends

I have been very busy getting ready for elections on the 3rd of November.

Things have been going well at home thus far.
H has cycled a few times but comes around rather quickly and they are much less frequent.
I haved stayed quiet and unless he crosses boundries, will let him continue through his MLC without interuption from me.

Hunting season is here so I have been waiting to go hunting when rifle starts. H hunts with anything he can get a hold of.

Son has been staying with us until he finds another apartment that he can better afford and it has been HELL. We are used to being by ourselves so neither one of us can wait until he leaves. Isn't that awefull! I am sure Son feels the same way though and it should be soon.

JAK
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You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

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#1863010 - 10/27/09 12:12 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: JAK58]
Startingover2 Offline
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Registered: 08/20/07
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Wow...just catching up on you and your thread. Good luck on Nov 3rd. What a great thing to do!!!

I can't believe your H is still in MLC...hes been in there for a really long time. Kudos to you for hanging in there the way you do.

Thanks so much for posting on my thread. It means alot!! smile
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Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!

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#1863022 - 10/27/09 12:40 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: Startingover2]
JAK58 Offline
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Registered: 12/04/06
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Loc: Upstate,N.Y.
Thanks So2.
It has been 4 years since I noticed the change, so it started before that. Guess I just am not a quitter,at least yet.

Steps forward, steps back but, he's working on it I think.
just need to remember to keep my mouth shut for now as I feel he is in withdrawl and toward the end. It is still up to him persay.

JAK
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You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

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#1863585 - 10/28/09 12:06 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: JAK58]
fightingirish Offline
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Registered: 06/22/07
Posts: 2866
Loc: USA
hope your ok... thinking about you. Yup deer season is here!!
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me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

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#1863660 - 10/28/09 01:24 PM Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W [Re: fightingirish]
JAK58 Offline
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Registered: 12/04/06
Posts: 2131
Loc: Upstate,N.Y.
((((((((TAL))))))))


Don't know when it 's a good time to call U?
let me know e-mail me at work


JAK
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