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Re: Part f*cking deux...
aliveandkicking #1847053 09/29/09 08:22 PM
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Let's see you have gone from saddened, disgusted, numb to mush and you want to know if you should talk to him today?

Survey says "X"

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Re: Part f*cking deux...
Coach #1847060 09/29/09 08:29 PM
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I'm at devastated right now. I feel like a rat in a cage. I'll be okay but Jeezus.
Re: Part f*cking deux...
aliveandkicking #1847064 09/29/09 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
I'm at devastated right now. I feel like a rat in a cage. I'll be okay but Jeezus.

Actually, you're in control. smile

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Re: Part f*cking deux...
RedSoxFan #1847068 09/29/09 08:38 PM
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Ignore him for a while and focus on yourself. Take a day or two to feel and work through things.

I know, easier said than done, but he'll still be there when you are ready.

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Re: Part f*cking deux...
Thinker #1847069 09/29/09 08:42 PM
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Why is this so damn hard?
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aliveandkicking #1847070 09/29/09 08:43 PM
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I don't know, but it is. It really is.

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Re: Part f*cking deux...
aliveandkicking #1847071 09/29/09 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Why is this so damn hard?


Because it pretty much involves every aspect of your being!

"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Re: Part f*cking deux...
antlers #1847076 09/29/09 08:47 PM
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It is very hard, I sypathize. Turn off your phone, turn up the music. wink

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Re: Part f*cking deux...
pearlharbr #1847078 09/29/09 08:50 PM
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Good yes. I simply told him that "I honestly don't know what to say."

I'm tired of playing games. I'm worn out and I can't worry about scr*wing up or not DBing or whatever. He's really f*cked up. Our M is so f*cked up.

Back to being already dead...
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aliveandkicking #1847109 09/29/09 09:25 PM
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His answer, "say it anyway"...he's still gaming.
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