I am up to my eyeballs in getting ready to move. I'm STILL emotional talking to exH about who wants what (furniture, etc). I thought it would be easier than at the time of separation, but even after 2 years I tear up! Hope you and your H will start clicking again and you won't have to go through this, JAK.
Originally Posted By: JoJo's circus
I just want to learn to live each day for me, be true to myself...
JAK, I'm up to my eyeballs in boxes and stuff that still needs sorting. I leave in one week--YIKES! It's difficult because I am still working...have only 3 non work days to get ready and during those days I have to do stuff like have the car worked on, etc. Thanks for listening to me grumble!!!
I hope you have a wonderful vacation! I'm glad the wt loss efforts are going well!!!
Wow a week isn't much longer. Seems there isn't enought time in a day to get anything done. Look at it this way though you gwt to do the hoeing out of stuff you wanted to get rid of for a while right! Always a plus side.
Be good to your self while trying to tackle this job. You deserve it.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Well, Quit my other part time job today long story to much bull as JAK will bend, and give, work whatever hours no one else wants or do whatever, don't need it in my life. H told me I could work with him since he has more work than time and I do know a lot about carpentry, so thats cool.
Just heard today that our friend that had cancer and went through all sorts of treatment and surgery now has spots on his liver sooo this is not good. Don't know details yet but I am worried for him.
Had a nice vacation away from ecveryone. It was sooo peacefull and it sucked going back to work but, someone has to do it.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Hi JAK. I'm settled in my little apt with my air mattress, card table and 2 lawn chairs. I like this simple life!!!! Will get the rest of my stuff in the next 2 weeks,but in a way I'd like to stay just the way I am for awhile longer. I am doing really well with my exericse program (having no friends here helps--ha, ha!)
How are things with you and your H? (must be ok if he said you could work with him!!!!)
that's so sad...