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Think I'm still happy with nc after all that. Probably just my impatience coming through and perhaps my own lack of confidence.
I need to get moving on my own goals and get my social life organised in advance. I have been staying home a bit trying to rest up but as the report was great at the surgeon today I can ramp things up a little more.
I have a friend arriving tomorrow for a few days so that will keep me occupied... dinner, movie, beach walks, cafe. Perfect now the weather is so beautiful.
I've read the advice from Gucci to you and it's a real change in our thinking and to best support you we need to think that way, too Oz.
Maybe we need to organise a GC retreat for us all. Blue sky, sunny days, beautiful beach. What more could anyone want?
Sounds like the GAL is going well and that you're recovery continues.
NC seems to be working on a personal level which is probably the best we can hope for. The DB stuff is just as much about your personal achievement/growth (or whatever you want to call it) as it is about saving the M.
All power to you
married 23 years 4 grown up kids
I think Gucci's words do ring true and in a lot of cases depending on the situation denial holds us back, I do believe that is the case for me.
I am glad you had a good report from the surgeon that should give you a much needed boost to get going on your GAL activities. It will be good having your friend stay for a few days with some fun things to look forward to.
I'm going well. Thanks Oz. Had my little regression when I doubted the other day but I'm back on top and feeling happy. I'm itching to do stuff now like travel and move but I have to put a hold on myself for now. I'm getting impatient but I sense this is a good thing in some ways.
Just saying hi. Do you really think your h will hold out and hold out before he makes a move. I can't remember if you've said whether you have let him make the first moves before? How long have you had n/c in the past?
Is it warming up over there yet? I can feel Autmn creeping into the air over here, not that we had much of a summer!
M- May 2006 D - Aug 2010 Now travelling the world