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#1835117 - 09/09/09 03:57 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
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poor fella can't even defend himself.

"la la la" is definitely how I know.
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#1835121 - 09/09/09 04:00 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: fisherman]
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Actually there isn't much difference between him not being able to defend himself and being banned. : )

That you're turned on, 'knowing' is how I know.
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#1835143 - 09/09/09 05:20 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
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You may not have been banned officially, but I seem to remember LostPhil personally banned you and some others from his thread. I think you were on double secret probation at one time.
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#1835148 - 09/09/09 05:25 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: KerryK]
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Wasn't everybody on double secret probation on that thread?
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#1835190 - 09/09/09 06:22 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
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Jack...
You are truly wicked!!!!
Poking fun......
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#1835303 - 09/09/09 10:41 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: brandnewday]
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BND,
Just wanted to jump on here and say that I have been reading a lot of your posts (past and present). I have gotten a lot of encouragement from them and the great advice you give people!
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#1835414 - 09/10/09 07:43 AM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Jack_Three_Beans]
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Bworls brill post had this:-

"Have I become the person I always hoped I would be?


Your mission, during this time of rejection and being ignored is to begin becoming that person. Your job is to restore YOUR life, and the lives of those closest to you who are still under your care. "

Just wondering...

Should we become the people our WAS`s want us to be or follow our own hearts-even if it takes us away from them...

Example: I`ve rekindled lots of interests I`ve had in the past-music, art, yoga, reading-problem is H has no interest in these things and actually, is scathing of my interest in them(though that`s part of his MLC anger/jealousy thing)

Should I try and connect more with out common interests?Can only think of one though and no its not the kids because he shows minimal interest in them.

One of his whinges is that we have nothing in common.

And one of the problems is that he declares he`s only interested in two things-football and his hometown, neither of which have a place in my heart.

Now if there were a real man on board he`d answer that one, but sadly Mach is not with us...

Just teasing, guys!

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#1835519 - 09/10/09 10:44 AM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Fallgirl]
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Good question. I think we need to do things for ourselves and be who we want to be. Ideally, we could cultivate new shared interests with our spouses but in our cases that isn't going to happen, at least not anytime soon and until reconciliation begins.
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#1835857 - 09/10/09 06:20 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: trustingfaith]
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Jack,

Have the book, haven't read it.

Think intimacy .........
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#1835862 - 09/10/09 06:36 PM Re: Quick Fix Magic Bullet for MLC [Re: Drew]
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WHAT!!?? laugh
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