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#1842650 - 09/22/09 08:35 PM Re: Boys? [Re: aliveandkicking]
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Truth is, I get flustered deep down when we spend family time together. I struggle as we all do with letting it be and not grasping, manipulating, jumping the gun. I am actually very impressed that I can juggle so many balls at once with him.

I'm serious when I say I'm impressed. I'm not just feeding you bs. My sitch is ridiculously simple and I can't make it 24 hours without botching it.

Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Ultimately...I need to figure out what I'm going to do now. School? Work? Which path...that is what I need to focus on.

OK. I'm actually excited about these options. When you brought up the need to tackle this the other day I was feeling it like a burden or something to put off. Like it was somehow in conflict with other things you're doing. Duh, it's not. You need this...it's a exciting.
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#1842668 - 09/22/09 08:49 PM Re: Boys? [Re: RedSoxFan]
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I need to figure out what I'm going to do now. School? Work? Which path...that is what I need to focus on.


Why not ring your professor friend up? Part of the job description, that, and those pointy-heads seem to do it an awful lot.
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#1842715 - 09/22/09 09:28 PM Re: Boys? [Re: RedSoxFan]
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OK. I'm actually excited about these options. When you brought up the need to tackle this the other day I was feeling it like a burden or something to put off. Like it was somehow in conflict with other things you're doing. Duh, it's not. You need this...it's a exciting.


Well, I'm glad you're excited! grin I am too but I don't do well with too many options and it is wiiiiiide open. A blessing and a curse.
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#1842716 - 09/22/09 09:30 PM Re: Boys? [Re: RedSoxFan]
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I'm serious when I say I'm impressed. I'm not just feeding you bs. My sitch is ridiculously simple and I can't make it 24 hours without botching it.


Thanks. I appreciate it. It has been monumentally difficult. There is no way but straight through. This is what life is about. As for your self-deprecating comments, enough. You'll make it. It is impossible until you have the lightbulb moment and I think you may have had it today. Raise your expectations of yourself. If I can do it, you can.
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#1842717 - 09/22/09 09:31 PM Re: Boys? [Re: SmileysPerson]
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Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
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I need to figure out what I'm going to do now. School? Work? Which path...that is what I need to focus on.


Why not ring your professor friend up? Part of the job description, that, and those pointy-heads seem to do it an awful lot.


Well helllloooooo friend. Will do.
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#1842804 - 09/22/09 11:39 PM Gianter Balls! [Re: aliveandkicking]
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Fo real...I just emailed H specifics about kid pick up tomorrow (his day) and he emailed and said he's really sick and hopes he's better then.

He f*cking posted a picture of that chick he was out with today on FB where he knew I would see it and now he's going to be "too sick"...

ROFL
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#1842869 - 09/23/09 01:47 AM Re: Gianter Balls! [Re: aliveandkicking]
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Fo real...I just emailed H specifics about kid pick up tomorrow (his day) and he emailed and said he's really sick and hopes he's better then.

He f*cking posted a picture of that chick he was out with today on FB where he knew I would see it and now he's going to be "too sick"...

ROFL

I need to coach him a bit. Seems like he's working with a limited playbook here.
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#1842879 - 09/23/09 01:55 AM Re: Gianter Balls! [Re: RedSoxFan]
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Fo real...I just emailed H specifics about kid pick up tomorrow (his day) and he emailed and said he's really sick and hopes he's better then.

He f*cking posted a picture of that chick he was out with today on FB where he knew I would see it and now he's going to be "too sick"...

ROFL

I need to coach him a bit. Seems like he's working with a limited playbook here.


Oh, he can dig himself into his own hole just fine, I think. wink
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#1842887 - 09/23/09 02:01 AM Re: Gianter Balls! [Re: aliveandkicking]
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Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
Oh, he can dig himself into his own hole just fine, I think. wink

LOL...Imagine the whole the two of us could dig together ;-)


Edited by RedSoxFan (09/23/09 02:02 AM)
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#1843247 - 09/23/09 03:12 PM Re: Gianter Balls! [Re: RedSoxFan]
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Is Private Messaging disabled on this forum??

Sometimes you just need one ear and not many for feedback or to share a laugh.

Bummer if it is:( I couldn't figure out how to do it.
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