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Hi Mat,

Great for the apartment and the exercise program. It must seem so simple with just the bare bones stuff could be a little bad on the back after a while though. Look at it this way you won't have to constantly be hoeing stuff out. grin

Fresh start to a wonderfull new life ahead!!!!!

H and I are doing ok it'as a 7 on my scale could be alot better but could be a lot worse.


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I have a girl friend who is going through MLC. It's been about or a little longer than my H. She has just decided to move out and has rented an apartment Aug. 1. I talked to her about her issues and her thoughts but, I don't push at all as this is something she needs to work through on her own. Just there for her to talk to.
Does the ILYBINILWY sound familiar? That is her. She is also drinking and partying quite a bit. She went through this years ago and left her H and as soon as he started to get a life and started to see someone she went running back. I have the feeling this will happen again.
I wonder though if it will be to late this time.
She has had an A both times.

I haven't told H yet, wonder what will go through his head when I do.

The drama never ends it seems. I think I might like boring as I am not into drama at all. crazy


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Isn't it hard to have a good friend that is making mistakes like that and you know that she will regret it later.

I was in that position, but she didn't actually leave him. Im working on her. Im trying to get her to go for therapy.

Its just like that the ilybinilwy syndrome... same thing only she has small children, and one is autistic.

Hang in there, I feel sorry for her H. It will always make me cringe when I here a story like this..

and know your not a drama queen...LOL


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Hey I forgot to mention that H is checking the history on my computer!

It makes me giggle.

He came in one day and I was just getting off this site. He asked if I got off because he came in and I said no(which is true). The next day he says something about the History and I said when did u learn how to check that and he said today while i was waiting to do something.
He has no clue how to use the computer or what the history was for so he asked someone im'e sure

It is so funny to see that he is checking up on me.

Im'e not stupid I delete my History each time I use it.


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?????I haven't been able to get on the computer much since i moved. Still don't have my computer set up at home. I thought by now there would be a post from you. Are you ok??????

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She's fine. Name change. Don't know if it's OK to post it here. Do you have a friend on FB or someone's email?

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Hi Mat Sara,

Im'e doing fine. I have been busy with the Primary for Town Clerk, making signs and getting my name out there.

Still same old from H. I was telling a friend that I feel kind of disconnected as of late. Im'e thinking to much again.
H hasn't bothered to tell me he loves me since April. Iv'e said it a couple times and he responds but, not in a while. This bothers me and makes me feel like he is just existing not really caring. I feel we are in a rut again.
We have been busy though we are in the process of flipping a house and it needs a lot of work. Fortunatly my H is a contractor on the side and Im'e pretty handy also. I think it will be fun.

I need to get more of a life outside the house myself though and I just haven't found the time .

I think H needs to wonder again about what I may be thinking. wink

Sara, I am on face book but, can never get on there as H monitors me when im'e on there(i think hew wonders and is worried) it seems ansd I can't get on at work as it is a blockeds site.

Mat, How is the new job and new state going? I hope you are meeting fantastic new friends there.


Jak


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Hi back. Glad to get an update! I am still up to my eye balls with boxes (work is keeping me too busy to unpack, PLUS I have no where to put everything since I downsized a little too much--that is the apt is small, but I brought too much with me). Job is great. Co-workers are nice and trying to make sure I feel happy.

Keep your H guessing! Keep in touch.
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Hi back. Glad to get an update! I am still up to my eye balls with boxes (work is keeping me too busy to unpack, PLUS I have no where to put everything since I downsized a little too much--that is the apt is small, but I brought too much with me). Job is great. Co-workers are nice and trying to make sure I feel happy.

Keep your H guessing! Keep in touch.
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sorry about the double posting.

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