I am late (time zones) but a&k, eventhough I f@cked up in my sitch, your sitch seems so clear to me... Your H DEMANDS that you treat him like you have been lately.
Tough "love", boundaries, detachement, "get your sh!t straight mister", no enabling of any kind (incl related to kids), a challenge, everything in that direction...

So, dont doubt yourself, stand firm. Be a loving....bitch, LOL
K

Ya, I know how to do the "bitch" part really well...it is the "loving bitch" that I'm figuring out.

AAK

Haven't been keeping up with you in a while but decided to drop in and see where you're at...what a turnaround! Love the kung fu attitude. Keep on taking names and kicking ass! (Or is it the other way around?)

Other way or around but who cares?

Thanks for the props.

Hi Alive.

Figured I would stop in on your thread and say hi. The thread is long and I have no ability to read it all now, but it looks like you are about to throw in the towel (H not worth it). Am I correct?

-T

Just a sec Tristan, I'll explain...

BUT first. I've been dealing with H so well.

So, of course he just manned up and sent me an email asking me to come out with him Saturday to the play...

thoughts?

Well.....
He manned up.
He actually exibited good behavior.
He didn't sulk over you ignoring his bad behavior.
My reaction is to say yes.

Be warned, I am sometimes a softie, but I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?

Honestly, I don't know if I want him making steps toward me. This is really weird.

Just looking for a little more input...