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What about it makes you sick to your stomach Dylan?


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That that is what it's going to take for her to realize this was not the way and the damamge done and quite frankly, it's too late to do anything about it.


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Just checking in.

Taking the day off to finish painting the garage and to save gas for the week, ugh.

Not sure if this is true or not. I got a call from XW's mole who would always show up after XW and I had a blow out. This time, she claimed she got a call from "me" at 3:30 in the morning Saturday. After numerous times of me stating I made no such call, I finally got a voice mail saying XW's brother downloaded some type of software on his blackberry to make it look like the call was coming from my number.

I spent a lot of time on the phone with my carrier and unfortunately if it true, it didn't touch my account so they can't get a device id to track.

Finally heard from boys yesterday, they were downstate at 'the new house'. S11 sounded miserable to be there. I don't get it, if they are staying here in school, why are they there every waking minute?

I certainly do not like them making that trip in OM's pos car, but nothing I can do about that.

XW did have S12 do her dirty work once again wanting to 'swap' for Labor day weekend sighting her 'party'. Of course I said no, and she went on a tangent in the background. I do not feel I should accomodate her and OM to go out and have fun, sorry ain't happeneing.

I did get a thought of maybe if I got the rest of my belongings back, I'd be a bit inclined, but didn't pass the notion along.

When S11 called me for the 2nd time of the day XW was in the background as usual, he asked 'do you want to talk to mom?', I said no, not neccessairily and said my goodbyes.

On a nother note, got a confirmation on one of the jobs I applied for last week so that is good news. Pay is the same I make now, but offering overtime, a thing I haven't seen in 6 years and could really use right about now.

well, off to pain some more.


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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well, off to pain some more.


Freudian slip?

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lol, yeah, I'm in pain now, but I was off to paint.

No updates, got a call from S12 last night, same old ordeal, "mom wants to know why you won't switch with her" jazz. Now she's one uping it by making statements that :I obviously must not like seeing my kids since I won't switch". I of course assured my sons that I want to see them every day and they know that.


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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One side thought I just had posting in another thread.

I hope XW is full on enjoying her slug in OM. Everytime I talked to the boys she was doing stuff (choirs, yard work) she's never done before or just didn't care to do and OM? watching tv.

hehe, good choice hun.


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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Don't you love how they try to twist things? If you don't switch then it means you don't want to see them. That is ridiculous. You know they are not thinking that, she is telling them that.

Good luck on the job hunt and the painting. I hate painting. I'll hire you to come paint my house. smile











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Yeah, painting is all done and came out nice (I call it cute) although requiring way more coats than I anticipated, but done just in time none the less. Ironically it came out nearly the same as the garage at our first house. crazy But at least my cousin is now happy with it and it's one more thing off "the list". laugh

It got my mind off a lot of lurking issues and felt nice to do something productive that is openly visable to everyone.

I am not concerned with what XW tries to pump into their heads about me. I wasted too much time and energy on that during the divorce. They know it's not true. And fact of the matter is it's a holiday weekend and matter of fact I just checked the parenting agreement and guess what, either way, the are with her this year. Plus I already had plans for half the weekend and now the rest is starting to fill in. And lastly, I stnad my ground, I am not her personal 'baby-sitter' to go out and have fun with OM. Maybe she can pay her chauffer to stay home and take care of them smile


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OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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In retrospect, I really chuckle at how childishly XW threw a temper tantrum over it in the background, kind of enjoined being a thorn in her side.


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M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
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Well, something's going on again at XW's, not sure what. S12 started calling (cell phone & house phone numerous times in a row) just as I was finishing making dinner so of course I had my hands full and told him I'd call back.

1/2 hour later in the middle of dinner, he calls back, again numerous times.

So when dinner was done I called him. Every other sentence he kept asking when I was moving back, how much money do I have. I still can't find the words for him to understand that it's not that simple, and I am broker than broke, hell I don't even know if I can afford a full support payment this Friday, let alone how much I'll have for the remaining 2 weeks. I asked my sister if she could write me a check and I write her one back to stop my overdraft fees from racking up. No reply. I don't even want to look at my account.

It was disturbingly quiet in the background there. S12 was hiding in bedroom to talk to me, I only heard XW once come in and check up on him. Just have a weird gut feeling. When he acted like this a few weeks ago, XW was not too far behind to act all 'buddy-buddy'. I can only imagine the level of screaming and fighting I would have endured from her for not doing anything but sitting on my butt while she did all the work, let alone the craziness of the fact of how and why they are together? That's got to be interesting.

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Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
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