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#1826358 - 08/26/09 09:24 AM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: orangedog]
Kalni Offline
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Registered: 01/20/08
Posts: 10261
I am late (time zones) but a&k, eventhough I f@cked up in my sitch, your sitch seems so clear to me... Your H DEMANDS that you treat him like you have been lately.
Tough "love", boundaries, detachement, "get your sh!t straight mister", no enabling of any kind (incl related to kids), a challenge, everything in that direction...

So, dont doubt yourself, stand firm. Be a loving....bitch, LOL
K
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#1826551 - 08/26/09 04:00 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: Kalni]
aliveandkicking Offline
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Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Ya, I know how to do the "bitch" part really well...it is the "loving bitch" that I'm figuring out. wink
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#1826588 - 08/26/09 04:47 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: aliveandkicking]
pearlharbr Offline
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Registered: 12/08/08
Posts: 2218
AAK

Haven't been keeping up with you in a while but decided to drop in and see where you're at...what a turnaround! Love the kung fu attitude. Keep on taking names and kicking ass! (Or is it the other way around?)
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#1826610 - 08/26/09 05:23 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: pearlharbr]
aliveandkicking Offline
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Registered: 04/15/09
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Other way or around but who cares?

Thanks for the props.
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#1826762 - 08/26/09 09:26 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: aliveandkicking]
tristan Offline
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Registered: 07/29/09
Posts: 719
Hi Alive.

Figured I would stop in on your thread and say hi. The thread is long and I have no ability to read it all now, but it looks like you are about to throw in the towel (H not worth it). Am I correct?

-T
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#1826842 - 08/27/09 12:19 AM PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: tristan]
aliveandkicking Offline
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Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Just a sec Tristan, I'll explain...

BUT first. I've been dealing with H so well.

So, of course he just manned up and sent me an email asking me to come out with him Saturday to the play...

thoughts?
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#1826849 - 08/27/09 12:34 AM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: aliveandkicking]
Virtually_Handsome Offline
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Registered: 09/14/06
Posts: 13424
Loc: AZ
Well.....
He manned up.
He actually exibited good behavior.
He didn't sulk over you ignoring his bad behavior.
My reaction is to say yes.

Be warned, I am sometimes a softie, but I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?
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#1826857 - 08/27/09 12:50 AM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: Virtually_Handsome]
aliveandkicking Offline
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Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Quote:
I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?


Honestly, I don't know if I want him making steps toward me. This is really weird.
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#1826882 - 08/27/09 01:10 AM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out, please... [Re: aliveandkicking]
aliveandkicking Offline
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Registered: 04/15/09
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Just looking for a little more input...
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#1826895 - 08/27/09 01:26 AM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out, please... [Re: aliveandkicking]
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Registered: 04/15/09
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