A Divorce Busting® Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out. Go to the new Divorce Busting® Store where you can sign up for Divorce Busting® Coaching and purchase Michele's Audios, Videos and eBooks that you can immediately download. Start taking the steps that will help you get your marriage back on track right away.

Please consider this OnLine Community as 'Read Only' for now. We are making some changes behind the scenes, and will let you know right away when everything is back up and running properly. Please do not register as a new user, nor post during this time. Although it may seem like things are working properly, please note that any changes or new posts that happen during this transition period will not be retained once we have completed our maintenance and changes, and are back up and running again. We are working to make this transaction period as short as possible. We are aiming for 24 hours, but it could be anywhere from 24 - 48 hours. Thank you.
Page 43 of 114 < 1 2 ... 41 42 43 44 45 ... 113 114 >
Topic Options
#1826358 - 08/26/09 05:24 AM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: orangedog]
Kalni Offline
Member

Registered: 01/20/08
Posts: 10259
I am late (time zones) but a&k, eventhough I f@cked up in my sitch, your sitch seems so clear to me... Your H DEMANDS that you treat him like you have been lately.
Tough "love", boundaries, detachement, "get your sh!t straight mister", no enabling of any kind (incl related to kids), a challenge, everything in that direction...

So, dont doubt yourself, stand firm. Be a loving....bitch, LOL
K
_________________________
Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009

Top
#1826551 - 08/26/09 12:00 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: Kalni]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Ya, I know how to do the "bitch" part really well...it is the "loving bitch" that I'm figuring out. wink
_________________________


Top
#1826588 - 08/26/09 12:47 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: aliveandkicking]
pearlharbr Offline
Member

Registered: 12/08/08
Posts: 2207
AAK

Haven't been keeping up with you in a while but decided to drop in and see where you're at...what a turnaround! Love the kung fu attitude. Keep on taking names and kicking ass! (Or is it the other way around?)
_________________________
If you love somebody, set them free.
http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g

Top
#1826610 - 08/26/09 01:23 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: pearlharbr]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Other way or around but who cares?

Thanks for the props.
_________________________


Top
#1826762 - 08/26/09 05:26 PM Re: Gucci, Coach, 25, SP, somebody??? [Re: aliveandkicking]
tristan Offline
Member

Registered: 07/29/09
Posts: 719
Hi Alive.

Figured I would stop in on your thread and say hi. The thread is long and I have no ability to read it all now, but it looks like you are about to throw in the towel (H not worth it). Am I correct?

-T
_________________________
Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1

Top
#1826842 - 08/26/09 08:19 PM PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: tristan]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Just a sec Tristan, I'll explain...

BUT first. I've been dealing with H so well.

So, of course he just manned up and sent me an email asking me to come out with him Saturday to the play...

thoughts?
_________________________


Top
#1826849 - 08/26/09 08:34 PM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: aliveandkicking]
Virtually_Handsome Offline
Member

Registered: 09/14/06
Posts: 13424
Loc: AZ
Well.....
He manned up.
He actually exibited good behavior.
He didn't sulk over you ignoring his bad behavior.
My reaction is to say yes.

Be warned, I am sometimes a softie, but I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?
_________________________
Jeff
The poster formerly known as dry_heat

Me-49
D 11/30/09
S12,16,21,22
Current:Wandering Poster 56-Take a step that is new...
Where the Rockettes Play!

Top
#1826857 - 08/26/09 08:50 PM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out. [Re: Virtually_Handsome]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Quote:
I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?


Honestly, I don't know if I want him making steps toward me. This is really weird.
_________________________


Top
#1826882 - 08/26/09 09:10 PM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out, please... [Re: aliveandkicking]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
Just looking for a little more input...
_________________________


Top
#1826895 - 08/26/09 09:26 PM Re: PEEPS...help a mother out, please... [Re: aliveandkicking]
aliveandkicking Offline
Member

Registered: 04/15/09
Posts: 2917
whistle
_________________________


Top
Page 43 of 114 < 1 2 ... 41 42 43 44 45 ... 113 114 >


Moderator:  dbmod, Virginia 

Save Your Marriage! Schedule Online

Schedule a phone consultation with a Divorce Busting® Coach! Call: 800-664-2435 or 303-444-7004