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I am. I posted a new post to show I am.

Kevin


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Still separated...
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Today is MILs birthday. H just texted that she would like to have dinner all together...me and the kids included.

I'm no where near up for it and the kids are tired (I was gonna get them to bed early)...

thoughts? I am close with MIL. Not sure why nothing was planned in advance. Oh, probably because when I was in wife mode I would have been planning. Duh...



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I'd tell him you can't make it, kids are tired, no notice, etc.

Could you call her and ask her to have lunch with you and the kids??


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Great. Thanks.



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AAK,

I wanted you to know that I apologized to Kevin on his thread.

Not trying to shred someone here.

Back to regularly scheduled programming - to quote SP.


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Ya DW, I thought that was very cool. I don't think you did anything wrong actually, I just could feel for him...



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Me too -- and he was a GREAT sport about it.

He had GREAT potential to turn this around and I sincerely hope he does.


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It irks me that H calls almost everyday to grill the kids about what they did that day...I hear S9 saying things like, "yep, it was just with mommy, nope, no one else"...it is not worth addressing right now, he won't admit he is doing it, he'll just say he is interested in the kids.

Anyway, just a minor vent. I will be posting soon regarding the important actions and decisions I need to make and I'm looking forward to input.



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Typical -- let it go.

AAK - he's SO textbook!!


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H knows I'm a bit sick...texted lasted night "you feeling alright?"

Am I to ignore this? Feels a bit petty.



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