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I am thrilled the Cowboys won. Yesterday was good. It was just me and my dad. We cooked a feast and watched football all day. I was grateful to have him there with me.

I wouldn't say somethings will never change SO2. From reading your post, it sounds like he is really thinking about you. Don't lose hope.

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did you figure out the african violet reference yet?

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SM,

I never looked it up. So no.

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The Cowboys are our team too even though we don't live in Texas. Our choices here are the Chargers, Raiders, or the 49rs. Not a fan of any of those teams. My little one has a Cowboys sweatshirt!


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K4, I read this from time to time, HTH:

I am joy in expression! Life is fuller, richer, and more fun when I approach each day from the joy in my heart. The people I know and love bring me joy, but I can also choose to manifest happiness on my own. My favorite pastime may be riding in nature or strolling through city shops and streets. I may find one activity more enjoyable than the other, but I can still find joy in both. Even if I am doing mundane tasks--no matter what I choose to do--the joy I create comes from within. So whether I'm at dinner with friends or stuck in traffic, I remember happiness is an inside job. As I appreciate everything in life, I am joy in expression!
"He will yet fill your mouth with laughter, and your lips with shouts of joy."--Job 8:21


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Me and my dad are at D11's choir waiting for it to start. My W and her family are sitting one row down and on the other side. She glances over here now and then. It hurts to see her. She did come say hi for a minute and then went back to her seat. I wish I was sitting with her and D7.

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Im sorry Kev. I know those thinks stink.

Hope you had a decent rest of the evening.


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Thanks ppenton and SO2.

The rest of the evening went good. D11 did very well. I was proud of her. I told W she looked good after and she said thank you and that I did to. Me and my dad spent a minute with my girls and then we left. I also got flowers for D11 which was my W's suggestion. She liked them. MIL stayed away from me and avoided me at all costs. No surprise there.

I did go to the casino yesterday and tripled my money. I had fun doing it. Then I came home and did some research and practiced online and realized that I was just lucky at the casino. While I did have a pretty good strategy that seemed to work, according to the odds, I would have eventually lost it. At least it was some good entertainment.

I also ordered my motorola droid phone which is supposed to be here Tuesday. I am looking forward to playing with that. I will get my girls for the evening Tuesday and then not again until Friday. Saturday is D11's birthday and W and I are taking her and 3 of her friends to Six Flags for her birthday along with D7. W said she will probably hang with D7 while I go on the rides with the older girls. That should be an interesting day. She still has no real interest in me.

I guess the holidays are in full swing mode now. Tomorrow my dad leaves and heads back to Charlotte. I enjoyed his visit for the week.

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Kevin, it sounds like you are doing great. You didn't gush and go overboard when W was around. Not much more you can do then that. Pleasant and civil.

Six Flags should be fun. Make it all about the girls and not worry about what W says or does...I know easier said than done.


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Thanks SO2,

I think I am handling things better these days with my W. I have more composure over myself in front of her than I used to. While I still have feelings for her, I am able to control them around her.

Things have been much more civil with her. I am not getting really anymore communication out of her, but when we do communicate, there doesn't seem to be animosity from her anymore. I know what to avoid with her now in the way of subjects, etc.

That being said, I am already looking forward to the holidays being over and life getting back to normal.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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