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KerryK,

What in the world possessed you to go back that far on my thread?

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It's not just a river in Egypt.

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That's what the C was supposed to be for.

And let's face it. You didn't "fail" as a Stander. Nothing wrong with going out with other W. It's the intention that matters.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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It's not just a river in Egypt.


Ok. I am perplexed with this statement. Do you want to fill me in a little better?

Kevin


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W filed for D 02/04/09
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It just seems like if I do anything, everyone says ADDICTION. I'm not quite sure how to get around that or get past that.


Because the things that get you excited or moving are all external. How about trying the one thing everyone agrees to here. Kevin decide for himself and take action based on his internal influences - beliefs, values, faith, convictions and character.


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And let's face it. You didn't "fail" as a Stander. Nothing wrong with going out with other W. It's the intention that matters.


Agreed and I believe I said that it was not right. The intention was not moral. And yes, I did fail as a stander because I caved to the very thing that I adamantly stood for as a stander.

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M: 08/02/97
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2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
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And let's face it. You didn't "fail" as a Stander. Nothing wrong with going out with other W. It's the intention that matters.


Agreed and I believe I said that it was not right. The intention was not moral. And yes, I did fail as a stander because I caved to the very thing that I adamantly stood for as a stander.


So stand up. Todays a new day. Cowboy up.


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It's not just a river in Egypt.


Ok. I am perplexed with this statement. Do you want to fill me in a little better?


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It's not just a river in Egypt.


Ok. I am perplexed with this statement. Do you want to fill me in a little better?

Kevin


Google it!

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PMA, I see what it means. It just didn't click with me originally.

Coach, Thanks for the insight. I see what you are saying. Everything has been external for me.

GoBison,

Today is a new day. I will say I did well in how I handled the sitch with W last night. I am rather proud of that. And I got to see the look of confusion in her face.

Kevin


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K4D #1870662 11/09/09 08:59 PM
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KerryK,

What in the world possessed you to go back that far on my thread?

Kevin

A year is not that far back. I just wanted to show you that you are repeating a vicious cycle. What would be so terrible about giving up alcohol all together?

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