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#1818892 - 08/14/09 02:41 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: davidswife]
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I don't remember this either. Must be holding out on us.

One suggestion Kevin. If you're going to be a stander, stop talking about how cute and attractive another woman looks to you. You keep mentioning stuff like that. Shows you're not sincere.
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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
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#1818899 - 08/14/09 03:05 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: MrBond]
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Originally Posted By: stuck808
I don't remember this either. Must be holding out on us.

One suggestion Kevin. If you're going to be a stander, stop talking about how cute and attractive another woman looks to you. You keep mentioning stuff like that. Shows you're not sincere.


Amen!! I was thinking the same thing. Kevin, start thinking about yourself and your little girls, they really, really, need you.
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#1818926 - 08/14/09 04:11 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: ppenton]
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As I said, it was a while back before I got serious about my stand for my M. And it was just a coffee date and led to nothing because I told her I was married. It was the week I was supposed to be D'd. But my W missed the date and I renewed my stand after reading rejoice ministries website.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1818927 - 08/14/09 04:11 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Stuck, just because I notice someone is attractive, does not mean I am acting on it anymore. I am married, not dead.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1818931 - 08/14/09 04:33 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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D7 watched Rocky 3 again tonight. She loves that movie. At one point we were driving in the car and I brought up, "There is no tomorrow" and she remembered it well as she loves that line. Then she says "There is no tomorrow man, pull yourself together". I started cracking up but then also realized how profound that is.

There are so many life lessons to be learned from all of the rocky movies. If I had to pick a series for someone to watch to teach them about lessons in life, the rocky series would be it. If you don't learn from those, you are really dense.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1818936 - 08/14/09 04:49 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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I was telling my BIL how frusturating this is to stand when it feels like there is no hope and he said it is time for me to read the book of Job again in the bible. Figures he would come up with something like that. It is true. Hosea also comes to mind.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1818938 - 08/14/09 04:55 AM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Kevin, it's not the fact that you are noticing girls, that's normal. It's the fact that you actually post it here and then in the same post mention how you are not looking for someone to be a new W.

I mean, you are the only one who really can't see what you are doing. You are so transparent.

Those insecurities are what's killing you right now.
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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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#1819060 - 08/14/09 01:56 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: MrBond]
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I see what you are saying Stuck. I am thinking on it to much. You are right. I have to many insecurities.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1819074 - 08/14/09 02:27 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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I am supposed to go school clothes shopping with W on Sunday. It will be a good opportunity for me to put my best foot forward.

D11 gets back from Florida tomorrow. She has had a fun week there.

My dad is coming to visit Thursday of this upcoming week. I am looking forward to that.

Life is what you make of it.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1819079 - 08/14/09 02:34 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Originally Posted By: K4D
I am supposed to go school clothes shopping with W on Sunday. It will be a good opportunity for me to put my best foot forward.
Kevin


Yup. Just DONT put it "forward" into your mouth...

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