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#1896067 - 12/16/09 11:13 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: K4D]
K4D Offline
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Registered: 12/30/08
Posts: 3975
Quote:
Ugh! Am I the only one having De ja vu here?

Kevin, you are the epitomy of the phrase "life happens while you're making plans" Your life is passing by every minute and you are still STUCK on this person that doesn't give you a second thought all day unless she needs something or you contact her for something meaningless.

Let go. Move on.

It's true. We dont know the future. But that doesnt mean you can't use logic to predict it. Scientist and other professionals do it every day. You can't hide your head in the sand from reality.

If only you could have truly detached and moved on with your life months ago. You might have already been back together with your WAW. Or better yet come to the conclusion that you deserve better now that you WORKED on YOURSELF. Oh well. We will never know.


I don't think I would have been back with her. And I don't think it would be better to be with someone else.

Maybe I can get my certification going and be better off in that area. That would be nice. And I do get tired of life passing me by without my W and kids in it every day anymore. But hey, I made a decision to get married and it is tough right now.

Kevin


Edited by K4D (12/16/09 11:14 PM)
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1896072 - 12/16/09 11:17 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: Drew]
K4D Offline
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Registered: 12/30/08
Posts: 3975
Quote:
I'm fine.

You're the one's that's stuck.


I appreciate your concern Drew. I am my own worst enemy. I have a lot of trouble forcing myself to further finalize any of this. I keep wanting to wait and see and of course I have been waiting for a while. Things are starting to thaw with W and her family moreso than they have since this began.

It makes it tougher to proceed forward with separating the rest and moving on. It is a stuck feeling. And waiting does seem to mean that life is passing me by. And waiting is unattractive. But I am not just sitting at home doing nothing. I am involved with doing things for others and with others.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1896080 - 12/16/09 11:27 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: K4D]
K4D Offline
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Registered: 12/30/08
Posts: 3975
I am really hoping tonight goes well. Last night seemed to. But I don't know if MIL will be there and how that will affect things if she is. Maybe it won't have any affect at all. Don't know. Will find out though.

I will definitely play tonight cool. I will be there for D12 and sit where ever is available and then after tell D12 how proud I am of her and tell her and D7 that I love them and that I will see them Friday night.

Then I will probably head home and work out.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1896086 - 12/16/09 11:30 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: K4D]
K4D Offline
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Registered: 12/30/08
Posts: 3975
Looks like a busy day at work tomorrow. That will be good. Keep my mind off of things.

I am also thinking about putting my resume out there again tonight. I might go ahead and just do that.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1896093 - 12/16/09 11:44 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: KerryK]
Super Girl Offline
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Registered: 10/28/09
Posts: 730
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Just pondering....but maybe the best medicine would be meeting a girl or two at a bar for uninhibited no strings attached rabbit sex.


It would certainly calm him down a bit. laugh

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#1896100 - 12/16/09 11:56 PM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: Super Girl]
KerryK Offline
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Registered: 10/17/07
Posts: 5992
Loc: Beaver State
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
It would certainly calm him down a bit. laugh

Maybe I was projecting since I am a single guy with no major baggage and an empty house for the next week... smirk
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Young divorced dad who lives half the time with a wonderful son (10) and daughter (8).

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#1896115 - 12/17/09 12:12 AM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: KerryK]
Super Girl Offline
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Registered: 10/28/09
Posts: 730
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
It would certainly calm him down a bit. laugh

Maybe I was projecting since I am a single guy with no major baggage and an empty house for the next week... smirk


You live in the Beaver State for cripes sake, whatcha waiting for? Hit the bar.

Yes, I know that was a bad joke.

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#1896127 - 12/17/09 12:27 AM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: Super Girl]
KerryK Offline
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Registered: 10/17/07
Posts: 5992
Loc: Beaver State
I am negotiating the time and location via email right now for a first date tonight with a girl who went to OSU - that makes her a Beaver.
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Young divorced dad who lives half the time with a wonderful son (10) and daughter (8).

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#1896150 - 12/17/09 01:02 AM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: KerryK]
Tomato Offline
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Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 4058
Loc: Northeast
Originally Posted By: sg
Hi everyone...if your threads are long...about over 100 posts, please help everyone out by starting a new thread. The board works more efficiently that way. Don't wait til you're closed out....please 'self-moderate'.

Happy Holidays,
sg


ahemmmmm... nudge ..nudge. You're the primest of candidates dude! lol

T
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#1896179 - 12/17/09 02:03 AM Re: K4D To Be Or Not To Be ??? [Re: Tomato]
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Registered: 02/22/08
Posts: 18296
57 channels and nothing onnn . . . . .


ZZZZzzzzz..................... crazy

Puppy
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"Still at the end of every hard-earned day, people find some reason to believe" -- Bruce Springsteen







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