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Thanks KJ.

Today is Friday. My dad got in last night. W came over to drop some stuff off for D11 but would not come up to the apartment since she knew my dad was there and she knows how he feels about her actions. The girls were excited to see their grandpa.

Tonight me and him will be going to the Cowboys preseason game and checking out the new stadium. My dad says he wants to get some barbq and mexican food while here. So I will figure out 2 good places to take him. It is nice having him visit. It gets lonely when W and kids aren't there. Well, its been lonely without W for a while. But it is really empty when the kids are with her as well.

This morning W wanted to talk to me on the phone and was basically griping me out for not remembering that the kids had a pizza party and school carnival today at the rec center. She told me to let her know if I was going to be able to give them money or not and if not she would have her mom drop by with money. I said I have it covered and they will have money. Thanks for letting me know. I kept my cool the entire time. Apparently my girls had been texting her since 6:15 this morning because we had quite a thunderstorm come through. It woke both of my girls up. They were kind of frightened by it. It was a pretty strong storm and the power was out for a while.

At least it is Friday.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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How did the interview go?


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Hi VD,

I never had it. Apparently the lady who is supposed to interview me was in meetings all day yesterday. So I called and left a voice mail asking her to let me know when would be a good time to talk. I haven't heard back. This is so informal. Basically she wanted me to call her and talk about the job when ever I could. lol.

I guess we will see if I hear from her today.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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My girls have their first counseling appointment on Wednesday at 6:30pm.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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W got mad at me this morning and told me thanks for the warning on the C. I didn't respond. I have already told her previously that they needed to go back to C and she agreed but said she would not help out financially right now. Fine. I took it upon myself and set it up. Now she is mad I didn't give her more warning. I had also asked her about this new C. She did not respond previously. As far as I could tell, it was on me to just go ahead and take care of it. Now she isn't happy.

At least the girls will be getting help though regardless of how W feels about anything.

The C wants to see me and the girls the first session. She would also like to see W. I don't know if W will come. But I told her she is welcomed to. I haven't heard back on that either. But I also know that W is busy this morning.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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W is offering to pay half now for every other week sessions with the C. She told me I didn't ask her. I said yes I did and that I had been told she can't help right now. She then told me she can't help with every week. So ok, she wants to help with every other week which is what I am signing them up for right now. Thats fine. I will let her pay for half.

That helps out.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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Now W is mad that the C sessions are starting on her Wednesdays with the girls. So I said I will switch that after this initial Wednesday. I asked if she was going to join us. She said she guesses she doesn't have a choice this wednesday since it is her day with them. Can't she put anything aside for them? Geez.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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She was worried that I was taking them to the C that she thinks I am seeing and that she doesn't think that C has done a bang up job on me. I said other than the one setback I have had, I think I am doing better, but I guess it is for others to decide. She doesn't know that I go see my priest on Mondays. She does know that I am going to AA meetings.

Either way, anything I am doing appears to be not impressing her. Not that I am trying to. But I didn't realize she was still looking down on me. But I guess that is to be expected considering the weekend a couple of weeks ago. But this past weekend was such a good weekend, I thought that maybe she for the weekend had seen me in a bit of a different light. I guess not. I'm still putting my legos together one peice at a time.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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This seems to be creating more tension with W. She wanted to know what her credentials were. All I know is that she came recommended to me and that she will work on a scale with us. She is an LPC Intern and is a Christian C. I have no idea what she is going to say or exactly what her method will be. She said that she prefers to work with all of us together starting out and then focus on the kids. Thats at least what she told me on the phone this morning.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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Does this ever get any easier?

<Sigh>

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...
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