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#1785840 - 06/19/09 07:56 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
stillloveshim Offline
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
Um, I think it's the idiot.
Here's stupid one for you:
where does virgin wool come from?
ugly sheep!
here are some more for a giggle!
http://tinyurl.com/ndjcu9
stay strong!

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#1785843 - 06/19/09 08:12 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: stillloveshim]
mdoodles Offline
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Registered: 11/24/08
Posts: 1011
Loc: new york
thanks for the laugh, could use it...

how are u doing? anything new?

i wonder why she was calling last night...as upset as we get about the ow, i bet that they think about us, their lover's spouse, as much as we dwell on them.

it must kill her to know that he cant ever fully remove me from his life. or maybe, just maybe, my words resonate with her (if our language barrier didnt get in the way) and perhaps she might even wonder if she should believe me...

as for h, im wondering if he is job hunting. i havent asked since monday, but i will ask this weekend. i would bet anything (no pun intended), that he is in atlantic city with whatever money he has...

did i ever mention that i paged him at a casino last summer because i saw on our bank account his was withdrawing in the casino when he didnt tell me he was there? it was classic when he got on the phone....
_________________________
me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1785852 - 06/19/09 08:45 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
No, you did not tell that story here! Hysterical!
My H and I love to gamble too. But we don't go without the other or the other one's knowledge.
As part of the deal to do the marriage program I told H I was very happy to continue to ML. We've never had a problem in that department! LOL!! Well, yesterday, he didn't call or text me once....not once. No biggie. But when he got home and tried to initiate ML, I declined. I said why and explained it was a respect issue. He took it well.
He picks up his keys for his new place today. I hope this distance will help us. I also hope he hates living alone. He's big about having people around.
Where is the idiot from? I guess in more general terms, Asia or South America?
Did you check out the url for the jokes?

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#1785893 - 06/19/09 10:13 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: stillloveshim]
mdoodles Offline
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Registered: 11/24/08
Posts: 1011
Loc: new york
she is here from poland, and im convinced she wants to marry my husband for her citizenship.

the jokes were funny, thanks for the laugh.
_________________________
me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1785897 - 06/19/09 10:23 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
stillloveshim Offline
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
Did you understand them?

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#1785900 - 06/19/09 10:24 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: stillloveshim]
stillloveshim Offline
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
And yes, she wants her green card and he's the meal ticket for it!
Maybe the next time she calls, you should tell her you plan to take a very very long time for this all to finalize.....double check her status in the country!
LOL!

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#1785915 - 06/19/09 10:36 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: stillloveshim]
mdoodles Offline
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Registered: 11/24/08
Posts: 1011
Loc: new york
working on it...i really dont plan on ever talking to her again....i have nothing left to say, and she doesnt believe me anyway....
_________________________
me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1785917 - 06/19/09 10:40 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
stillloveshim Offline
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
didn't you say she posted a pic of her and him on Facebook? Do you have a page? Or are you just avoiding it?
I have a FB page now, but I took it down for a long while as I was dealing with the height of H's stupid-ness.

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#1785931 - 06/19/09 10:53 AM Re: he was back, i think [Re: stillloveshim]
mdoodles Offline
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Registered: 11/24/08
Posts: 1011
Loc: new york
i do have one, but i keep it completely private so she cant find me....for a while i was not private, and she went wild i believe because my picture was of my family....that when she started putting up pictures of her and him. he hates having his picture anywhere so im sure it pissed him off. he has told me she is crazy and cant be spoken to.

i know in the past, through my friends, she had been posting pictures and changing date stamps on them to make me think he was with her at such and such times. i also know that he had her take the pictures down, but she doesnt listen for long.

i did change my picture because i know he doesnt like to on there, i respected it (although i will be honest, i played the game for a while and put up our wedding picture kissing, couldnt help it!)

i do not ever ever ever look at her. my friends check now and then in case i need to be alerted of anything. his picture was down while he was home, leading me to believe they really did break up.

honestly, she can post whatever she wants. it cant hurt me, especially when i dont even look.

she is a child. she is what? 22 now? not that im so old at 31, but im dealing with a child.

im on alert for her to call me again though...
_________________________
me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09

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#1786057 - 06/19/09 01:14 PM Re: he was back, i think [Re: mdoodles]
stillloveshim Offline
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Registered: 01/30/09
Posts: 626
Loc: Florida
she will call again
answer.
see what she has to say.
make it clear she is not that important to you and she shouldn't be counting on you to make her life easier or more difficult because your feelings for her are apathetic at best. make it clear she's not very special to you or to your h.
what did you think of my silly jokes link?

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