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#1675883 - 12/17/08 03:00 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: breakaway]
Babygirl Offline
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well the dinner thing, i had other plans for dinner. he had an awful day at work, not home wrecking whore related, and did all my outside animal and wood chores before going to work because of the cold and snow and said something about how good something sounded. so i made it. when he called D answered the phone, and he left earlier than he planned cause he was looking fwd to dinner so much. D and her friends were outside putting up sleds when he pulled in and the phone rang. D said he looked to cry. I guess i felt like, if I am really trying to prove that I want this marriage, even with the S, that I had to show him I wouldnt punish him for normal things that are going to come up S related. thats why i waited. PLUS if i said i had already eaten, he probably wouldnt have believed me. he is shoving food at me constantly as my weight dropped again.
THAT said. the ow so played him. i mean, come on, she has a walmart a mile away, a dillons half a mile away, she could have done it herself, instead of waiting all the time it took H to drive and get it done. last nite, I won. and i made it a no fight win. i didnt like it, but i was big. finally. i proved myself. to them both, and S was a happy healthier camper lol!
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#1675945 - 12/17/08 04:26 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
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YOU are an amazing woman, [[[[[[BG]]]]]]!!
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#1675988 - 12/17/08 05:19 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
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Okay okay okay...BG, you win. It was nice of you to wait on dinner.

I think the good thing about what you did vis a vis the baby...is it showed OW that you know everything that's going on, if she calls H with baby problems, you are right there in the big ole middle of the sitch, and know more than EITHER of them about how to take care of one. So it sort of takes her edge away there. If she thought she was in control of the situation that way...she found out she wasn't last night. ;\)

And S got properly taken care of so that's important too.

Maybe buy her a case of baby wipes and then she won't run out at dinner time again... \:\/
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#1676083 - 12/17/08 08:07 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: breakaway]
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Registered: 01/03/08
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Hey bg \:\)

Peace to you.
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#1676093 - 12/17/08 08:17 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
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Babygirl you are awesome. Even through the pain you came through, loud and clear, the better woman.
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#1676383 - 12/18/08 08:54 AM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: The Wifey]
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Hi Sis

You are smiling, ...right?

many ((( hugs )))!
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#1676411 - 12/18/08 09:18 AM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Tomato]
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Morning to you BG! Hope you have a nice day!
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#1676418 - 12/18/08 09:27 AM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: MT35]
kelaaron Offline
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Registered: 08/27/08
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Bg are you there

I'm gonna call soon
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#1676531 - 12/18/08 11:43 AM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: kelaaron]
Babygirl Offline
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Registered: 08/25/08
Posts: 2991
Loc: out in the boonies of kansas
morning all, cold with ice fog or let me share what i learned today, hoarfrost, or whorefrost lmao! thanks le, that made my whole day! Kel you braved to talk to me right after waking up, that takes a brave woman lol!

sad nite last nite. I was hit with the realization of the blame my H put on me for the reason of the A, is exactly what he is doing to me right now. oh buts its ok for him to be that way? i realize he is just making excuses, but still. it really hurts. and he is so caught up in is the grass going to be so much greener over there.......well, I cant sleep with a man who constantly waivers like that. it hurts to bad.
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If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25
"your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight
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#1676599 - 12/18/08 01:03 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
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Bg, you are nails! Great job on being the bigger person. Proud of you!
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