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#1676753 - 12/18/08 08:55 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: kelaaron]
Amy M Offline
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Registered: 07/23/08
Posts: 1163
Loc: Florida
Thanks, Kel! BTW, I drive even over bridges...just not in the snow!!! But, since we are waiting a few months...that shouldn't be a problem!
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Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!

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#1676760 - 12/18/08 09:04 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Amy M]
Babygirl Offline
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Registered: 08/25/08
Posts: 2991
Loc: out in the boonies of kansas
this hurts you guys. the reality of my life. WHY couldnt he just hurt me once and let me go, why do i have to go over and over? like i dont know the truth? i have said this to kel so many times, he wants me to make him leave. thats why he does this. the way our weather is here, i have now talkd to all my kids. yes i told the younger two, like he would? and they want me to fight, yet i fear he wants banishment. and to make it my choice. PDT fought. YES he didnt win, but he fought. and i am so flippen tired of being last. of my kids being last. where the hell are his balls that he can knock her up TWICE with, but will lie to my fact with?
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3 children
If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25
"your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight
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#1676766 - 12/18/08 09:14 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
Amy M Offline
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Registered: 07/23/08
Posts: 1163
Loc: Florida
BG...what's he lied about now? Is there something new, or are we still dealing with the same stuff?
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Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!

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#1676771 - 12/18/08 09:23 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
Tomato Offline
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Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 4058
Loc: Northeast
Originally Posted By: Babygirl
this hurts you guys. the reality of my life. WHY couldnt he just hurt me once and let me go, why do i have to go over and over? like i dont know the truth? i have said this to kel so many times, he wants me to make him leave. thats why he does this. the way our weather is here, i have now talkd to all my kids. yes i told the younger two, like he would? and they want me to fight, yet i fear he wants banishment. and to make it my choice. PDT fought. YES he didnt win, but he fought. and i am so flippen tired of being last. of my kids being last. where the hell are his balls that he can knock her up TWICE with, but will lie to my fact with?


bg. You are super! Fight what ever battles you want to fight and when you are not then hit relax mode and try like hell to completely disengage. Go 'joy hunting' as it were. Start with the Lord who is your rock and will bring you a kind of joy you will find nowhere else. Then mix in other things that will cause you to smile. I am sure you have a pretty smile, don't let it allude you. Relax, breath and cherish what God gives you by His grace and mercy.

He gave me a friendship with you and vice-versa and I am glad for it \:\) !

Peace & love of Christ,

T
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#1676773 - 12/18/08 09:25 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Tomato]
Tomato Offline
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Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 4058
Loc: Northeast
T- minus 7 days til we mark the glory of the birth of our Lord and Savior. *SMILING ear 2 ear*
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#1676778 - 12/18/08 09:30 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Tomato]
Babygirl Offline
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Registered: 08/25/08
Posts: 2991
Loc: out in the boonies of kansas
LoL tomato, shhhhhhhhhhhhhh on the christmas countdown. thank you for reminding me where to go.

Amy, WHaT hasnt he lied about? every word out of his mouth since he emailed me the bomb has been a lie. EXCEPT he loves her and i am making him choose...............
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XH 34
3 children
If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25
"your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight
ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010


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#1676784 - 12/18/08 09:42 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
breakaway Offline
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Registered: 10/08/08
Posts: 1464
On what planet would he not have to choose?

Ask him that.
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#1676789 - 12/18/08 09:55 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: breakaway]
Babygirl Offline
Member

Registered: 08/25/08
Posts: 2991
Loc: out in the boonies of kansas
I woke up today
Woke up wide awake
In an empty bed
Staring at an empty room
I have myself to blame
For the state I'm in today
And now dying
Doesn't seem so cruel
And oh, I don't know what to say
And I don't know anyway
Anymore

I hate myself for losing you
I'm seeing it all so clear
I hate myself for losing you
What do you do when you look in the mirror
And staring at you is why he's not here?

You got what you deserved
Hope you're happy now
'Cause everytime I think of her with you
It's killing me
Inside, and
Now I dread each day
Knowing that I can't be saved
From the loneliness
Of living without you
And, oh
I don't know what to do
Not sure that I'll pull through
I wish you knew

I hate myself for losing you
I'm seeing it all so clear
I hate myself for losing you
What do you do when you look in the mirror
And staring at you is why he's not here?

I hate myself for losing you
And oh, I don't know what to do
Not sure that I'll pull through
I wish you knew
And oh, I don't know what to say
And I don't know anyway
Anymore
No, no

I hate myself for losing you
(I'm seeing it all so clear)
I'm seeing it all so clear
I hate myself for losing you
What do you do when you look in the mirror
And staring at you is why he's not here?
What do you say when everything you said
Is the reason why he left you in the end?
How do you cry when every day you shout
"Don't ever bring him back again?"
I hate myself for loving you
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M 36
XH 34
3 children
If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25
"your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight
ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010


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#1676836 - 12/18/08 10:45 PM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Babygirl]
Little Engine Offline
Member

Registered: 09/08/08
Posts: 1108
Bg--What significance do these lyrics hold?
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M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.

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#1676889 - 12/19/08 12:25 AM Re: welcome to the land of misfit toys #11 [Re: Little Engine]
Tawnya Offline
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Registered: 10/13/08
Posts: 2556
Loc: NC
BG..Knock her up twice..did I totally miss something?

Tawnya
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H:40
D18/S12
M20/T21
Bomb 10/11/08
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