Sorry, you're going through what you"ve been going through. Your right, its not right or fair thet one in the marriage should and wants to do the work required and the other gets to go out and do anything with no reguards to the conquences.
The drinking is a problem. The DWI"no matter how many" in a problem. From time to time i guess we all explode. That comes from you doing all you think you should or can and things are still off track between the two of you. It"s ok. Human nature.
I understand...my wife left me in 08/2008, had an affair which i hear has ended 06/2011, has been living here in the house with me from time to time due to her DWI, VOP, said alot of crewl things, and now just receintly i have talked to a divorce lawyer.
Currently i know things will not work when it is just one sided and only one sided. it's been that way for 3 years now.
I appreciate the list. Would you share what may have caused the return to crisis or leaving again? Each time if you are able. I want to learn as much as I can. Thank you so much!
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
