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Hey Bridge, so Jeff gets the ladies, & you get the guys huh ? \:\)

Nice to have you back. I missed you !!!

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Sorry Bridge did not mean to get down on your H. I misunderstood how the vacation went. And I know the both of you cannot fix everything in one week but what I meant was he had a huge oportunity to put his best foot forward and I tought from what you posted that it was the same old, same old thats all.



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I apologize for the kite flying comment. I don't know anything about it and should not have made the comment.


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Tim,
No need to apologize.. you put to words somethings I know I have thought & felt over the months!! Just not in that specific situation. I guess I had no exepectation of either of his feet being put forward at all, just not using them to kick \:\)

Which he did not and that is a good thing. Trust is rebuilt in little ways. The same old, same old probably was more about my feelings of the situation and I know I need to reframe that. After dealing with my sadness about my S18 leaving for college in Counseling next week, that will need to be the topic I think.

Please don't feel badly about your post, I feel your support & concern & appreciate it & your words very much!!

thanks & peace
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Originally Posted By: smartcookie
Hey Bridge, so Jeff gets the ladies, & you get the guys huh ? \:\)

Nice to have you back. I missed you !!!

Hugs


Hi SC
Thanks for stopping by.. I can't keep up with where you post!! \:\)
It's easier to find you other places ;\)

I get the guys? that's an interesting thought...
I'm just glad for the feedback & support, no matter the gender.

Having a few different DAM perspectives is nice though.
Not to dis the WAW & AWAW support.. their BTDT means a lot too.

I'm grateful to all.
hugs to you!
Bridge


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Hi all,
I have started a new thread and requested that this one be locked.

You can find me here now.

Peace
Bridge


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