Sounds like you've got what it takes. Now, do what you said, test the waters a little. Give him a sign he won't miss, and don't set yourself up for disappointment. Just don't have any expectations. I know that's hard, but if I can do it, you can do it!
I was thinking as I read about the margaritas (I'd love one, but I'm supposed to be working) that a margarita at just the right time might help you flirt a little more openly! But, don't have more than one...that's a recipe for disaster!!!!
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
You know, I was just looking at your signature line and reflecting on how similar we are. Both late 30s with younger husbands and small kids. We have been with our Hs almost the same amount of time, too.
Uhhmmm No, alcohol would not be a good thing! I got a little too friendly with Jose and that was what prompted me to pick a fight and ask H to leave.
I do have it, I just need to get past my nerves so that I can act on what I actually feel.
Thank you for keeping me on my toes!
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Just got caught up on your locked thread, WOW Iam sure you definitely got H attention in more ways than one hehehe!!!
You are doing good girl and your confidence will increase as things continue to move forward, there is going to be that bit of nervousness just like the first time, I certainly remember it on the 4th but it feels oh sooooo good...