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#1540194 - 07/31/08 09:43 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
kissak Offline
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Registered: 12/31/06
Posts: 3525
Loc: USA
Well, I guess my H has offically stopped talking to me.

I dont know. He hasnt texted or called today at all! Thats a first. He texted me last night to tell me that he got out of class early and to tell the kids he loved them, he was going to take a shower and probably go to bed.

He could have called them. He never does. Still gets to me. Anyway, i have a good feeling that he went to the OWs. I have an even greater feeling he finally broke and told her it was ME who was lying about the sitch he was in. I think his guilty conscience has kept him from talking to me.

I guess it doesnt matter. He would deny it to me anyway.
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Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10

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#1540226 - 07/31/08 10:08 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Offline
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Registered: 08/01/07
Posts: 4521
Loc: Midwest, US
Try not to fret on it Kissak. If he's doing this, then he's deep in it and there's nothing no one can do about it. Just enjoy you and the kids! Btw, I think they don't talk to the kids directly due to the guilt as well.

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#1540275 - 07/31/08 10:43 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: Maya44]
kissak Offline
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Registered: 12/31/06
Posts: 3525
Loc: USA
WEll Dar, I dont think he talks to the kids because he is so wrapped up in trying to get the OW back. He is selfish with his needs. I have determined that is how its going to be for a while. He is a very selfish individual who likes to have his ego boosted. I also think he is a very cruel person to cheat on people he says he loves. At no time through any of this has he took the blame for cheating on me or her. Its all about blaming someone else. Never him. He has issues and until he is ready to face them, he will never be truly happy.

oh, what a day.
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Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10

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#1540305 - 07/31/08 11:06 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Offline
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Registered: 08/01/07
Posts: 4521
Loc: Midwest, US
That's a good realization though Kissak. At least you're not blaming you for his behavior!

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#1540309 - 07/31/08 11:08 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
mishka422 Offline
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Registered: 12/12/07
Posts: 9502
Loc: GA
You are right about H's issues Kissak. He is in a completely selfish mode and can't think about anyone else. I'm sorry he is being so neglectful of your children but you are the true parent to them. You are loving them, supporting them, housing them, tucking them in at night. Those are the things they will remember for a lifetime and cling to. Your love Kissak....that's what they require most. Cling to that.

((((((((((Kissak)))))))))))))
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T19 M15 S19 XH46 M42
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!


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#1540344 - 07/31/08 11:24 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: mishka422]
kissak Offline
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Registered: 12/31/06
Posts: 3525
Loc: USA
Thanks Dar and Mishka....I wish things werent the way they are, but I dont think anything is going to change anytime soon.

Oh, I have a party tonight....My parttime business...selling inhome stuff.....Im looking forward to getting out and having a good time! I have about 10 or more people coming! Looking forward to the commission too!!

Pray for me!
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Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10

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#1540363 - 07/31/08 11:30 AM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Offline
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Registered: 08/01/07
Posts: 4521
Loc: Midwest, US
SWEET! How many parties have you done now? Are you sure you can't share the name of the company with us? We can sign up under you and you'll make more $ then too! Maybe just the initials and we can figure it out? ;\)

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#1540465 - 07/31/08 12:50 PM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: Maya44]
kissak Offline
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Registered: 12/31/06
Posts: 3525
Loc: USA
WEll, its TW (One word, yes people, its still around)...I have done 3 parties now....Its sooo easy and fun too! It has helped me alot with my self esteem! I really enjoy it.
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Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10

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#1540483 - 07/31/08 01:03 PM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: kissak]
Maya44 Offline
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Registered: 08/01/07
Posts: 4521
Loc: Midwest, US
For real???? I was going to sign up for that a couple weeks ago! I wasn't sure it would pan out though since it's been around for like, forever! ;\)

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#1540525 - 07/31/08 01:23 PM Re: Just Living My Life! [Re: Maya44]
mishka422 Offline
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Registered: 12/12/07
Posts: 9502
Loc: GA
AWESOME Kissak! I love TW - have lots of it!
_________________________
T19 M15 S19 XH46 M42
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!


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